its all downhill, 5 year relationship |
 Sep 12 2006, 01:45 PM
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ive been with chris since the 8th grade and we`ve been together for almost 5 years now. when it`s good, it`s oh so good but when it`s bad, hell breaks open.
it`s weird with us because one day, he`s so committed to us. all he tells me is, "i want to be with you forever. i love you with all my heart. i want to marry you." and the next day, he tells me, "i don`t want to be committed. i don`t want to talk about the future." it hurts me because i love him that much and we`ve been together for 5 years. does he not want to be with me anymore? i don`t understand --- why does he always change his mind? is it something i`m doing? what could i do? our relationship hasn`t always been the best because we`ve gotten into countless arguments over petty things. now i`m going to go to college in san diego and he`s going to be here in los angeles. i`m planning on coming back every 2 weeks, but i don`t know if it`ll be enough. i don`t want him to get tired of this "long distance thing" and i don`t want his eyes to wander while i`m away. chris has always been a faithful person and i know he`d never cheat on me. is it wise to keep going with this relationship even though i`ll be a 100 miles away? i feel like i can`t live without him because we`ve been through everything together. what do i do? help! thanks  EDIT ---- i know that 2 hours isnt as extreme as other long distance relationships :p but remember that we have been practically neighbors for the past 5 years & its hard to go from that to being in different cities :( THANKS for all of your advice. |
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Sep 13 2006, 12:50 PM
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 Just One Kiss Will Stop Your Heart! Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 454,951 |
Oh come on thats not even a long distance 2 hours are you serious you could visit him every weekend but first you must it is a must that you talk to him find out if he is tired or if he really wants to go through with this dont ever dought him or your relationship you must learn to be strong i mean yes you love him but the possibilities here are he can say yes i want to stay with you and then he can say no i dont want to now the question is do you love him enough to let him go .And he could stay but this could mean you have to except that he is going to be sad without you there by his side all the time so take it slow and work it out everything will work out for the best.
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II_noFOREVER its all downhill Sep 12 2006, 01:45 PM
hardxcoreL0VER talk to him. ask him about your future. maybe you ... Sep 12 2006, 04:31 PM This Confession You know the best thing to do at the moment is tal... Sep 12 2006, 04:34 PM m_h I'm sorry to hear that ur going through this. ... Sep 12 2006, 06:39 PM tinasmileeetina I think he's afraid. Maybe he feels that he ca... Sep 12 2006, 09:21 PM Uronacid Look, it's not going to be easy to go from a r... Sep 12 2006, 09:45 PM krnxswat Guhfren~! That's not even longdistance. Wh... Sep 12 2006, 09:58 PM
Uronacid QUOTE(krnxswat @ Sep 12 2006, 10:58 PM) G... Sep 12 2006, 10:27 PM krnxswat Not even two hours! Sep 12 2006, 10:36 PM _sarcastic_ sit him down and talk to him about this long dista... Sep 13 2006, 01:18 AM II_noFOREVER thanks to everybody for your advice :)
and as fo... Sep 13 2006, 01:48 AM This Confession I can agree that yea you both have been together f... Sep 13 2006, 03:31 PM Uronacid QUOTE(This Confession @ Sep 13 2006, 4:31... Sep 13 2006, 06:33 PM |
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