I'm so nervous, about having sex for the first time. |
 Aug 5 2006, 10:08 PM
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Alright, I'm a virgin, and that might be changing very soon. I've heard a lot of really bad things from my girl friends, and they made me all nervous. I'm not expecting it to be wonderful, but I was hoping that someone could tell me something positive about their first time.
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Sep 12 2006, 01:58 PM
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there are questions you should ask yourself ...
how long have you been with him? and do you really love him? or are you just infatuated? theres a fine line between real LOVE and reallly really really liking him. do you trust him? does he love you? are you doing it because you feel pressured to? do you feel like he's pressuring you? ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years and he's the person i lost it to. it was 6 months into the relationship ---- its when i fully trusted him, completely loved him, and knew he felt the same about me. i dont regret it because it was real love. make sure you're really ready and he's the person you love. |
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SemiErotic I'm so nervous Aug 5 2006, 10:08 PM
salcha4u Why don't you just....not do it Aug 5 2006, 10:16 PM
nyctophiliac QUOTE(salcha4u @ Aug 5 2006, 11:16 PM) Wh... Aug 5 2006, 10:22 PM
christina lee QUOTE(salcha4u @ Aug 5 2006, 8:16 PM) Why... Sep 15 2006, 05:45 AM xbabyboo ^^same here.
you don`t have to do what the cr... Aug 5 2006, 10:27 PM xcaitlinx i'm not a virgin, and i understand how you... Aug 5 2006, 10:29 PM SemiErotic I'm considering just not doing it at all, like... Aug 5 2006, 10:34 PM nyctophiliac good for you
only do it if you really love who yo... Aug 5 2006, 10:52 PM Angelina Taylor Don't do it.. you're insecure. Do it with ... Aug 5 2006, 10:54 PM tainted_angel ^ I'll have to agree. If you're unsure abo... Aug 5 2006, 11:04 PM SemiErotic The thing is, I really do want to. I do trust him... Aug 5 2006, 11:20 PM Angelina Taylor ^ You're not ready, trust me. If you were, you... Aug 5 2006, 11:29 PM iROCKYOURSOCKS QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Aug 5 2006, 11:29... Aug 6 2006, 07:48 PM T0rmented_Soul For a guy their first time may be great but then f... Aug 5 2006, 11:44 PM electric shock There's always a first in everything.
If you w... Aug 5 2006, 11:44 PM rorhinna Don't do it!
And if you're feeling pr... Aug 6 2006, 12:47 AM liquid. I'll be the positive one!
Positive side: ... Aug 6 2006, 03:03 AM Annie5332 My advice: If you're nervous, you're not r... Aug 6 2006, 01:23 PM Spec_R it sound to me that you don't know what to do ... Aug 6 2006, 01:48 PM Just2Fresh QUOTE(Spec_R @ Aug 6 2006, 11:48 AM) it s... Aug 6 2006, 07:54 PM Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg if you aren't fully confident that this is wha... Aug 6 2006, 07:37 PM Doona This is a subject I've heard alot about at my ... Aug 6 2006, 07:50 PM Smoogrish If you have any doubts, don't do it. Simple as... Aug 6 2006, 08:39 PM Angelina Taylor ^ Regarding that, you should know that sometimes, ... Aug 6 2006, 11:22 PM cassjamminx ^ True (if it rips and what not)
But if you'r... Aug 6 2006, 11:33 PM x___F0RG0TTEN hmm to me, i think that if you're having these... Aug 7 2006, 12:07 AM icy_wonderland I suppose sex isn't that great anyways. There ... Aug 7 2006, 06:59 AM cloudy sunshineee You sound reeeaally nervous. If you're not rea... Aug 7 2006, 11:14 PM viola_winnie if you're nervous,that means you arent ready f... Aug 7 2006, 11:16 PM Brittany Rachelle I'm not sure what to tell you. If you want to,... Aug 8 2006, 01:09 AM just_rissa I agree with all the people who are virgins. Aug 8 2006, 01:51 AM superdotimas25 hey man, i believe in abstinence and all that----
... Aug 8 2006, 02:15 AM Stately Lover "That might be changing very soon." It ... Aug 8 2006, 01:22 PM lanbexx do it! its the most amazing experience ever an... Aug 8 2006, 01:55 PM rorhinna QUOTE(lanbexx @ Aug 8 2006, 11:55 AM) do ... Aug 8 2006, 05:08 PM french_fries Well..if you're having doubts, then I suggest ... Aug 8 2006, 05:07 PM lanbexx yup thats what a girl would say.
unless ur announ... Aug 8 2006, 07:45 PM blaqheartedstar well ... gonna be 17 and i'm in the same boat ... Aug 8 2006, 07:56 PM lollypop036 well u dont really seem ready at all so id advise ... Aug 10 2006, 07:49 PM xoxo_koala_kisses_ If you're questioning it, then you are clearly... Aug 10 2006, 08:34 PM The E-Man Well I agree with Melissa. You have to be mature a... Aug 10 2006, 08:41 PM lindurf deleted Aug 11 2006, 01:55 PM xoxo_koala_kisses_ QUOTE(lindurf @ Aug 11 2006, 2:55 PM) you... Aug 11 2006, 05:56 PM lilseeky agreed, dont do it if you feel wierd about it. bu... Aug 11 2006, 02:33 PM iRock cB Positive? I was in love when I lost my virginity a... Aug 11 2006, 06:51 PM liquid. http://www.freehomepages.com/liquidized/003.wma Do... Aug 11 2006, 06:58 PM iRock cB ^ I can't. It's corrupted or something. I ... Aug 11 2006, 07:03 PM xxaznxgurlxx Everyone has their first times, I had mine. From p... Aug 11 2006, 08:08 PM Angelina Taylor QUOTE(xxaznxgurlxx @ Aug 11 2006, 9:08 PM... Aug 12 2006, 08:27 AM Yemmerz If one more person says "do it", I'm... Aug 12 2006, 04:04 AM lyin_in_wait well it was positive because i felt like it wasnt ... Aug 12 2006, 11:48 AM xnastyninjagrlx Honestly, if you are even asking this question the... Aug 14 2006, 02:44 PM Uronacid You wouldn't be nervous about it if you were r... Aug 14 2006, 09:47 PM satch QUOTE(Uronacid @ Aug 14 2006, 7:47 PM) Yo... Aug 14 2006, 09:56 PM herebutnot well, i lost my virginity about a year ago with a ... Sep 8 2006, 04:01 PM m_h I'm sure your still very young and very confus... Sep 12 2006, 07:01 PM Venomous Lust A word of adive you should never plan it out.If yo... Sep 15 2006, 01:25 PM Trinie Actually, when it was first time, and that was 7 y... Sep 18 2006, 07:38 AM Hot Layouts Yeah. LOL.
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To enhance the ... Sep 18 2006, 08:04 AM sillakilla220 just DO IT... yeah u WILL bleed a lil! its ok ... Sep 18 2006, 11:34 AM |
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