regrets., ever did something stupid? Options

[*LaStiNg4EtErNiTy*]

ok last night i did something really stupid. there was this problem with me and this girl and i ended up apologizing. every one of my friends said i was stupid for saying sorry because it was obvious that it was the other girl's fault. i hate myself for being too nice and a pushover. i cant believe i gave in and ended up saying sorry. i know i didnt stand up for myself and now i look like a loser. i have no reason to be mad at anyone but myself. now it's too late to do anything about it. has that ever happened to anybody? if you do something u regret, and then there's nothing u can do to change it? i am such a loser. and the thing is, i cant let it go. i cant forgive myself for it. what should i do?

[*Uronacid*]

Yeah, everyone does stupid things. Don't let them effect you. You need to learn from them. I call this the hot stove principle.

Hot Stove Princple:

The story: There once was a boy who's father told him that the stove was hot and that he shouldn't touch the stove or he will get burned. The boy was curious, and instead of listening to his fathers advice he applied his hand to the hot stove and burned it.

Moral: You can learn to do things one of two ways. You can learn from the wisdom and expierence of others, or (if you need to) you can learn from your own expierence. Either way, you will learn. Don't regret what you have learned from.