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 Sep 10 2006, 04:21 AM
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Okay! Enough with it, the "i love you's" it has to stop. I can't believe I've said it incessantly to people, and I actually didn't mean it. So now I've made an oath with my bestfriend. That when I get a boyfriend, I wont say "I love you" until 5/6 months in the relantionship. But what I'm really curious about is how the way he would re-act to it.
I think his questions will be: Why aren't you saying "i love you" back? Do you even love me? Why wouldn't you say it? Is it because your unsure of your feelings for me? What do you mean? I don't get it. Hopefully he won't break up with me just because of this. But I wanna mean what I say. What do you think? |
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| *This Confession* |
Sep 10 2006, 04:37 AM
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I don't think you should put a time limit on your relationship before ever saying I love you. What happens if you actually get in a relationship and 3 months down the road you know what love really is and the meaning and feelings behind it and you figure out you love this guy. Yet you can't tell him how you feel until 5-6 months. So your just going to keep how you feel away from him?
I don't think you should put a time limit on your relationships feeling BUT make a promise and oath to not say I love you until you truly understand what love means and truly know your in it before saying it. When he tells you he loves you and you know you don't love him, tell him the truth. They will like you even more for being completely honest with them. Tell him that you know you don't like him but you know that you really like him. You can't just change your feelings for someone with the snap of a finger or the trading of a few words. It takes time and patience. I think you doing a good job and its a neat idea.  If the guy breaks up with you for something you really think is right, and something you really want to do. Then hes not the right guy for you.
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Sep 10 2006, 07:03 PM
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QUOTE(This Confession @ Sep 10 2006, 1:37 AM)  I don't think you should put a time limit on your relationship before ever saying I love you. What happens if you actually get in a relationship and 3 months down the road you know what love really is and the meaning and feelings behind it and you figure out you love this guy. Yet you can't tell him how you feel until 5-6 months. So your just going to keep how you feel away from him? I don't think you should put a time limit on your relationships feeling BUT make a promise and oath to not say I love you until you truly understand what love means and truly know your in it before saying it. When he tells you he loves you and you know you don't love him, tell him the truth. They will like you even more for being completely honest with them. Tell him that you know you don't like him but you know that you really like him. You can't just change your feelings for someone with the snap of a finger or the trading of a few words. It takes time and patience. I think you doing a good job and its a neat idea. If the guy breaks up with you for something you really think is right, and something you really want to do. Then hes not the right guy for you.seriously. i couldn`t agree more. 
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