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regrets., ever did something stupid?
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post Sep 9 2006, 11:03 PM
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ok last night i did something really stupid. there was this problem with me and this girl and i ended up apologizing. every one of my friends said i was stupid for saying sorry because it was obvious that it was the other girl's fault. i hate myself for being too nice and a pushover. i cant believe i gave in and ended up saying sorry. i know i didnt stand up for myself and now i look like a loser. i have no reason to be mad at anyone but myself. now it's too late to do anything about it. has that ever happened to anybody? if you do something u regret, and then there's nothing u can do to change it? i am such a loser. and the thing is, i cant let it go. i cant forgive myself for it. what should i do?
 
 
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*This Confession*
post Sep 10 2006, 04:34 AM
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Eh, I get called a pushover all the time. pinch.gif

Its starting to bother me in a way. I get over it of course though. I use to say sorry for everything. Wouldn't ever accept any apology from anyone else but I could be sorry even though it was not even close to my fault. I still do it actually.


First off though, your not a loser. Your a human being that makes mistakes just like everyone else, the first step that you need to take is getting a little more self-esteem and know that your only human and you make mistakes and you have to accept them. Because you can only learn by making mistakes.

Just move on, you can go back to her and say that it was her fault and she needs to know that. If she doesn't then do you think she'll learn her lesson from what ever she did?
 

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