like a fly that buzzes around your ear and refuses to die,, my ex is becoming a nightmareeeeee. Options

[alysaphobia]

we went out for 2 weeks, that's it. and i broke up with him, but he's like, not getting the message at all. it took me 20 minutes of explaining when we were breaking up till he finally understood no amount of persuading was going to bring me back, he was that slow to catch on. he's still calling me 3 times a day, he's still SMSing me, he's still IMing me, he's still staring at me @ class. oh and he still says 'i miss you...' and emotional stuff like that to me.


i really, really, really, really, REALLY need him to STOP. before i start to hate him. because you know how it's sorta hard to like, or even tolerate someone if they're stalking you like that?



ADVICE.

[*Uronacid*]

First off I would suggest that you not get into any more serious relationships with people. In a serious relationship you have to acknowledge the needs of your partner. I would suggest dating, and not getting into a relationship. Relationships cuase people to get attatched. This causes people to become "needy". They need you.

You need to tell him, "Look, I made a mistake in leading you into a serious relationship. I don't want to be in a serious relationship with anyone. I just want to date around and have fun. I don't want you. I don't ever want you. It doesn't mean that you are a bad person. I'm sure that there is someone out there that does want you, but it isn't specifically me. MOVE ON WITH YOUR f**king LIFE, AND GET THE f**k OVER ME!" *hang up the phone, and don't answer the phone if he calls back.*

CUT THE CORD ON THE RELATIONSHIP. BE BLUNT BE HONEST. KILL IT!!!