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bbkm34
post Sep 4 2006, 09:39 PM
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so over the summer, i went to this camp.
and i left liking this guy.
i'm 17, and the guy i like is 6 years older than me (23). He was a counselor at the camp, and he and I talked and stuff.
I dont know if i should tell him that I like him. Cause I cant stop thinking about him.
I dont know if it would be a good idea, cause i am planning on going back to the camp next year, and he will be a counselor there again.
So should I tell him now? Or wait a year, tell him, and when camp ends never see him again. or should i just not tell him???

Would it be frowned upon? 23 and 17 year olds together?
 
 
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bbkm34
post Sep 6 2006, 07:39 PM
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yeah...
i dont think he knows i like him. and i dont even know for sure if he likes me.
its just... im just so drawn into him.
its not like im going to tell my parents about him, im not even looking for a long relationship, maybe a fling.
a fling is alright, right? im a conservative girl, so i wouldnt want to have sex or any of that stuff with him. i just want to, you know...be with him.
but yeah.. big problem is that i dont even know if he is a least bit interested in me. sometimes i think he might be, but then i dont know if i am just overthinking things.
he's really mature for his age, so i dont know if he'd freak out and just stop talking to me, once i tell him how i feel.
so should i tell him? or just keep liking him, and never tell him how much i like him?
 

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bbkm34   age difference   Sep 4 2006, 09:39 PM
[X]poised   Uh... it's not so much the age difference, but...   Sep 4 2006, 10:00 PM
_sarcastic_   6 years isn't that big of an age gap. i think ...   Sep 5 2006, 12:30 AM
Spiritual Winged Aura   be careful. he can lose his job. people would fir...   Sep 5 2006, 01:15 AM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Sep 5 2006, 2...   Sep 5 2006, 11:09 AM
Angelina Taylor   QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Sep 5 2006, 12:09 PM)...   Sep 5 2006, 12:12 PM
Uronacid   QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Sep 5 2006, 1:12 ...   Sep 5 2006, 12:32 PM
Angelina Taylor   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Sep 5 2006, 1:32 PM) SWE...   Sep 5 2006, 04:07 PM
icy_wonderland   ^O_o? Well it wouldn't matter if they'r...   Sep 5 2006, 05:11 AM
dahding   in response to icy_wonderland, whether or not they...   Sep 5 2006, 05:51 AM
femme_fatale4160   QUOTE(dahding @ Sep 5 2006, 6:51 AM) in r...   Sep 5 2006, 09:01 AM
icy_wonderland   Oh right. So if they don't have sex it's a...   Sep 5 2006, 06:36 AM
Angelina Taylor   Age difference isn't the problem, as some peop...   Sep 5 2006, 08:47 AM
Paul M. is baaack   My parents are 6 years apart, and have been marrie...   Sep 5 2006, 01:42 PM
satch   My wife and I are 11 years apart been married for ...   Sep 5 2006, 08:43 PM
viola_winnie   few years isnt a big deal.if you really love him,h...   Sep 6 2006, 06:51 AM
Paul M. is baaack   So...topic starter, what are you going to do?   Sep 6 2006, 01:16 PM
urxaznxbo0   Age is nothing but a number, right? My parents are...   Sep 6 2006, 05:17 PM
bbkm34   yeah... i dont think he knows i like him. and i do...   Sep 6 2006, 07:39 PM


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