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 Sep 4 2006, 09:39 PM
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so over the summer, i went to this camp.
and i left liking this guy. i'm 17, and the guy i like is 6 years older than me (23). He was a counselor at the camp, and he and I talked and stuff. I dont know if i should tell him that I like him. Cause I cant stop thinking about him. I dont know if it would be a good idea, cause i am planning on going back to the camp next year, and he will be a counselor there again. So should I tell him now? Or wait a year, tell him, and when camp ends never see him again. or should i just not tell him??? Would it be frowned upon? 23 and 17 year olds together? |
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Sep 5 2006, 05:51 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
in response to icy_wonderland, whether or not they are in love or not, she's still 17. if they have sex, it's considered statutory rape, since she is still considered a minor.
so yeah, if anything like that does happen, be careful. as just bf and gf, it's whatever. not that big of an age difference. go for it. |
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Sep 5 2006, 09:01 AM
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 I've got ADD and magic markers. Oh the thrills I will have. Group: Member Posts: 624 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 445,743 |
QUOTE(dahding @ Sep 5 2006, 6:51 AM)  in response to icy_wonderland, whether or not they are in love or not, she's still 17. if they have sex, it's considered statutory rape, since she is still considered a minor. No it's not. At least, not in New York State. It's only considered rape if she's under the age of 16. Anyway, you sound a lot like my cousin. She met a 20 year-old guy at camp when she was 15, but she started arranging meetings with him and seeing him behind her mother's back. You, however, are almost an adult and you should be able to make your own decisions, so it's really up to you. Personally, I think it's a bad idea. Long-distance relationships rarely work out. |
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bbkm34 age difference Sep 4 2006, 09:39 PM
[X]poised Uh... it's not so much the age difference, but... Sep 4 2006, 10:00 PM _sarcastic_ 6 years isn't that big of an age gap.
i think ... Sep 5 2006, 12:30 AM Spiritual Winged Aura be careful.
he can lose his job. people would fir... Sep 5 2006, 01:15 AM
Tamacracker QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Sep 5 2006, 2... Sep 5 2006, 11:09 AM Angelina Taylor QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Sep 5 2006, 12:09 PM)... Sep 5 2006, 12:12 PM Uronacid QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Sep 5 2006, 1:12 ... Sep 5 2006, 12:32 PM Angelina Taylor QUOTE(Uronacid @ Sep 5 2006, 1:32 PM) SWE... Sep 5 2006, 04:07 PM icy_wonderland ^O_o?
Well it wouldn't matter if they'r... Sep 5 2006, 05:11 AM icy_wonderland Oh right. So if they don't have sex it's a... Sep 5 2006, 06:36 AM Angelina Taylor Age difference isn't the problem, as some peop... Sep 5 2006, 08:47 AM Paul M. is baaack My parents are 6 years apart, and have been marrie... Sep 5 2006, 01:42 PM satch My wife and I are 11 years apart been married for ... Sep 5 2006, 08:43 PM viola_winnie few years isnt a big deal.if you really love him,h... Sep 6 2006, 06:51 AM Paul M. is baaack So...topic starter, what are you going to do? Sep 6 2006, 01:16 PM urxaznxbo0 Age is nothing but a number, right? My parents are... Sep 6 2006, 05:17 PM bbkm34 yeah...
i dont think he knows i like him. and i do... Sep 6 2006, 07:39 PM |
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