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bbkm34
post Sep 4 2006, 09:39 PM
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so over the summer, i went to this camp.
and i left liking this guy.
i'm 17, and the guy i like is 6 years older than me (23). He was a counselor at the camp, and he and I talked and stuff.
I dont know if i should tell him that I like him. Cause I cant stop thinking about him.
I dont know if it would be a good idea, cause i am planning on going back to the camp next year, and he will be a counselor there again.
So should I tell him now? Or wait a year, tell him, and when camp ends never see him again. or should i just not tell him???

Would it be frowned upon? 23 and 17 year olds together?
 
 
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AngelinaTaylor
post Sep 5 2006, 08:47 AM
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Age difference isn't the problem, as some people already said. I'm 17 and I'm dating a 24-year-old, and it's the best relationship I've ever been in.

But anyway. Just take my advice, because I know what I'm talking about - forget about him. Well you will, like it or not, because you won't see him for an entire year. It's not worth it, especially if he doesn't have any feelings for you. If you really think that he does, and if he lives somewhere near you, then you could try. But chances are you'll end up with a broken heart.

Edit: It's long distance? Wowww please don't do that. I just got out of a two year long distance relationship and I'm just warning you, it hurts like hell when you can't be with him. It's a very very very very VERY bad idea. Don't do it.. you'll regret it a lot. Just let go while it's not as serious as it can get.
 

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bbkm34   age difference   Sep 4 2006, 09:39 PM
[X]poised   Uh... it's not so much the age difference, but...   Sep 4 2006, 10:00 PM
_sarcastic_   6 years isn't that big of an age gap. i think ...   Sep 5 2006, 12:30 AM
Spiritual Winged Aura   be careful. he can lose his job. people would fir...   Sep 5 2006, 01:15 AM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Sep 5 2006, 2...   Sep 5 2006, 11:09 AM
Angelina Taylor   QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Sep 5 2006, 12:09 PM)...   Sep 5 2006, 12:12 PM
Uronacid   QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Sep 5 2006, 1:12 ...   Sep 5 2006, 12:32 PM
Angelina Taylor   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Sep 5 2006, 1:32 PM) SWE...   Sep 5 2006, 04:07 PM
icy_wonderland   ^O_o? Well it wouldn't matter if they'r...   Sep 5 2006, 05:11 AM
dahding   in response to icy_wonderland, whether or not they...   Sep 5 2006, 05:51 AM
femme_fatale4160   QUOTE(dahding @ Sep 5 2006, 6:51 AM) in r...   Sep 5 2006, 09:01 AM
icy_wonderland   Oh right. So if they don't have sex it's a...   Sep 5 2006, 06:36 AM
Angelina Taylor   Age difference isn't the problem, as some peop...   Sep 5 2006, 08:47 AM
Paul M. is baaack   My parents are 6 years apart, and have been marrie...   Sep 5 2006, 01:42 PM
satch   My wife and I are 11 years apart been married for ...   Sep 5 2006, 08:43 PM
viola_winnie   few years isnt a big deal.if you really love him,h...   Sep 6 2006, 06:51 AM
Paul M. is baaack   So...topic starter, what are you going to do?   Sep 6 2006, 01:16 PM
urxaznxbo0   Age is nothing but a number, right? My parents are...   Sep 6 2006, 05:17 PM
bbkm34   yeah... i dont think he knows i like him. and i do...   Sep 6 2006, 07:39 PM


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