ok... I would call this a Relationship problem. HELP!, I mean wtf... SAY IT WITH ME.. WTF |
ok... I would call this a Relationship problem. HELP!, I mean wtf... SAY IT WITH ME.. WTF |
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Ok, Lets get serious. I was at a party with my best friend and she had more to drink then me and this dude was trying to get her in bed and I knew it. So, I went up to her and reminded her that she for got to take her pill and I told her that we had to fucken go home. After this I grabed her arm and draged her down the steps and she got out of my hands and ran back up the stairs and she wouldent listen to me. She said O SHELBY I WILL BE BACK IN 5 min. I was liek YOU BETTER BE.. But I was drunk also. So the guy f**ked her and I feel some what for the blame. I tryed my best but I think she is the one that has to deal with it. BuT! She was more drunk the me and had stuff to smoke that day also. I was down stairs with every one because she locked us out of the guys house that we we're at. Every one was calling her a f**king whore ( Which I agreed with them) Ans she was being like one. She met the guy liek 4 days ago. I MEAN WTF.
SO should I feel guilty and take the blame. I mean I could have done more to help. Now if she has a kid and she keeps it I will be the one that has to look at the kid and think. Hey, I could have prevented you from coming to this world. I feell so guilty. Should I feel this way I mean I tryed my best. ![]() I mean now dont say that we shouldent be drinking in the first place. Kids do stupid shit and I really dont need to here about that right now. K, thanks |
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"drink responsibly" is the quote all of the beer companys use. so its her fault entirely. no one made her drink or smoke. she did it all, and excessively, on her own. If shes not big enough of a person to realize when their limit has been met, when their decision making process is skewered and the right guys to be around with then that is where it becomes her problem. Although i do believe you could have told her the reason why you were pulling her aside rather than just to go home. No guilt needs to be rested on your shoulders
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