ok... I would call this a Relationship problem. HELP!, I mean wtf... SAY IT WITH ME.. WTF Options

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Ok, Lets get serious. I was at a party with my best friend and she had more to drink then me and this dude was trying to get her in bed and I knew it. So, I went up to her and reminded her that she for got to take her pill and I told her that we had to fucken go home. After this I grabed her arm and draged her down the steps and she got out of my hands and ran back up the stairs and she wouldent listen to me. She said O SHELBY I WILL BE BACK IN 5 min. I was liek YOU BETTER BE.. But I was drunk also. So the guy f**ked her and I feel some what for the blame. I tryed my best but I think she is the one that has to deal with it. BuT! She was more drunk the me and had stuff to smoke that day also. I was down stairs with every one because she locked us out of the guys house that we we're at. Every one was calling her a f**king whore ( Which I agreed with them) Ans she was being like one. She met the guy liek 4 days ago. I MEAN WTF.

SO should I feel guilty and take the blame. I mean I could have done more to help. Now if she has a kid and she keeps it I will be the one that has to look at the kid and think. Hey, I could have prevented you from coming to this world. I feell so guilty. Should I feel this way I mean I tryed my best. HELP!

I mean now dont say that we shouldent be drinking in the first place. Kids do stupid shit and I really dont need to here about that right now. K, thanks

[*This Confession*]

Personally if I tried to get them to come back and not go and they got out of my hands as hard as they could. I wouldn't feel guilty at all. I would make them understand that what ever happens to them is going to be their fault.

I would make it very clear. I suppose in a way I could feel a little bad. But you both made the choice to go drinking and crap so its your/her fault.

What ever happens, happens.


Even though you were honest and that since she was being a whore you just agreed with the others calling her that. This kind of goes along with People don't really want the truth. So you just keep it from them. She has to get over that, because if she was drunk and acting like a slut then she needs to accept it. It was her own fault. Maybe she'll get a little bit smart later and learn not to drink so much.