He 'disappeared' Options

[hershey-kissesz]

So this guy asks me out to the movies, but apparently I can't date a guy without bringing him home first. So, I did. But before I did, there was alot of flirty texts back and forth, everyday. There was even a point where I could've sworn we were already going out, officially. But I pointed it out, and he said we havent even really done anything at all to really feel anything yet.

So, one day, I finally bring him home. We got a little too intimate for the first hour when my parents weren't around yet, and I'm talking about 1st,2nd,3rd base all together. It was all too fast, I thought, but we were already talking about it beforehand, text-wise. So, after 4-5 hours in the house, meeting the family and fooling around every chance we got, he went home.

A day after that we exchanged only one text, and the day after that there was nothing. Then the day after that, I sent a text for a kicks, and there was no response.

So, what happened?

[*This Confession*]

He used you

Atleast that what comes to mind, sorry to say that and all I wish it wouldn't ever happen to anyone but yea. Perhaps you could call him or something and ask him what he thinks of it all and what does he want to do. I suppose if he doesnt' want to do anything then you can't do anything to change his opinion because you made the choice to move as fast as he did the first time you guys did things.

Just remember theres always more people out there as well.

[hershey-kissesz]

He used you

Atleast that what comes to mind, sorry to say that and all I wish it wouldn't ever happen to anyone but yea. Perhaps you could call him or something and ask him what he thinks of it all and what does he want to do. I suppose if he doesnt' want to do anything then you can't do anything to change his opinion because you made the choice to move as fast as he did the first time you guys did things.

Just remember theres always more people out there as well.

You're right, maybe he did, but something's telling me that it was never just because of that. I think that's what's making me question the whole thing and bothering to post it up on a forum for opinions, but thanks though for you're opinion (:

Ah, but what confuses me, is that through it all, he chose not to go all the way.

He said that one reason was because he didn't want to hurt me, but then he mentioned about not seeing himself 'having fun doing it'. It confuses me.

But our conversations were never always about intimacy. There were times when it was just simple and sweet. Some showing that he even cared. That's what's stopping me from thinking he used me.