did i do the right thing?? Options

[xostolenkissezox]

so i've been hanging out with this guy that i used to date a few years ago. when we dated before it all turned out so bad and he pretty much broke my heart but since it was so long ago i forgave him and just went on with my life. well we've been hanging out again but we both just got outta pretty serious relationships. he's making plans of things to do like all winter so i assumed he plans on sticking around for awhile even if we are just friends. and even though we are, i know there are feelings there between the 2 of us. so tonight i confronted him and told him that i didn't care if we hung out and that i wasn't asking for a relationship right now since we both had just ended relationships of our own but i didn't want to get hurt again and if this whole thing was just a game to him, to end it now and stop talking. he told me he would try his hardest not to hurt me because he doesn't ever want to put me through that again and kissed me. but i'm not so sure i did the right thing by confronting him like that because when we talked on the phone when he got home, he was quiet like he was thinking and he told me i made him think too much...so idk...i'm confused and just wondering if i did the right thing or not...

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

you did the right thing by telling him that if he wants to hurt you again he better think twice . i agree with xoxo_koala_kisses_ he for some reason does not seem really trust worthy to me and could as easily break your heart again. you can be friends with him if you want but dont be anywhere alone with him go and hang out with a group of friends. trust should be gained back slowly and by actions he can easily say right now that he will \"try\" to never hurt you again but thas jus words anyone can say promises and break them easily wat you need is actions actually proving that he wont do anything to harm you.