i have this friend, and she is making me and my bff mad... Options

[shinysparkle3]

okay, so, me and ashley have this freind and she has a REALLY low self esteem and she always has. she is always talking bad about herself and its really annoying. she always talks bad about guys that me and ashley talk to saying "oh hes a football player dont hang out with him" or "oh yeah, thaaaat guy, there is something about him i dont like" or "eww dont talk to him he skateboards" or "oh yeah i bet he doesnt even remember me." and she thinks that EVERY GIRL in the WHOLE school give her the evil eye and that they hate her. its REALLY annoying. she always says how ungly and fat she is. yeah, i mean, she isnt that skinny and she isnt that pretty but like its annoying.
she is really sensitive..

how should we tell her that its getting old?

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

UGH I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE DO THAT!!! shit it jus pisses me off. first you need to calmly tell her why she is always putting herself down ask her if its for attention or just to make your life a living hell. tell her that her same \"boohoo im so ugly boohoo\" sob story is really ANNOYING. tell her that the WHOLE skool has better things to do than judge her all day long and tell her that not everyone in the whole world is going to like her their will be eventually someone who doesnt like her and she needs to grow out of her little fantasy world. she prolly hates that you and your friend ashley go and talk to guys because maybe she has had bad experiences with guys during her life so she might even be experiencing jealousy that you and your friend have dudes attention and she doesnt so she SELFISHLY tries to get you and your friend to not talk to anybody just for HER sake thats really inmature in her part.


if she is so concerned over her looks you and your friend could help her out to make her go on a diet and start taking care of herself like makeup and clothes wise. make it an all girls shopping spreee for her so your friend could get her self esteem up again.

im sorry if i was rude about your friend but it really is impatient for me that people seriously think that by bitching about themselves day and night it will make them feel better or have people feel sorry for them. its just ANNOYING.