i have this friend, and she is making me and my bff mad... |
 Sep 1 2006, 04:30 PM
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okay, so, me and ashley have this freind and she has a REALLY low self esteem and she always has. she is always talking bad about herself and its really annoying. she always talks bad about guys that me and ashley talk to saying "oh hes a football player dont hang out with him" or "oh yeah, thaaaat guy, there is something about him i dont like" or "eww dont talk to him he skateboards" or "oh yeah i bet he doesnt even remember me." and she thinks that EVERY GIRL in the WHOLE school give her the evil eye and that they hate her. its REALLY annoying. she always says how ungly and fat she is. yeah, i mean, she isnt that skinny and she isnt that pretty but like its annoying.
she is really sensitive.. how should we tell her that its getting old? |
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Sep 1 2006, 06:17 PM
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Tell her how you both feel and think. Don't be harsh about it or anything. Accept what she thinks and in return she should except what you both think.
Just go somewehre have a sleepover or something what ever you guys do and just talk about it. Ask her why she thinks that and such. I mean if every girl in the whole school gave her the evil eye then why aren't you guys doing it? She needs to lossen up and get some self esteem and if she doesnt' clear it up on her own then tell her to go to a cousular or something. Maybe you both could help her gain some self esteem http://www.utexas.edu/student/cmhc/booklet...em/selfest.html Maybe go to a book store and go to the self help section and find a book full of quizzes to help you gain self esteem, I know there are some out there. Because I always like going over to that section and looking at books. All three of you can take the quizzes and maybe make some fun out of it, it will probably give you results and how you guys can improve your answers and all change the way you think of things. Could be just an excuse that she uses, to get attention. http://www.jobjournal.com/article_full_text.asp?artid=1169 http://www.womensweb.ca/self/ Random links pretty much. They should have something useful in them perhaps. |
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Kirsti i have this friend Sep 1 2006, 04:30 PM
The E-Man Try sitting her down and telling her that she is b... Sep 1 2006, 04:43 PM loveneko Do what I would do in this situation, wait till sh... Sep 1 2006, 04:45 PM doork I have a friend like that.. she doesn`t have l... Sep 1 2006, 04:49 PM
loveneko QUOTE(doork @ Sep 1 2006, 5:49 PM) I have... Sep 1 2006, 04:53 PM
yrrnotelekktric QUOTE(doork @ Sep 1 2006, 1:49 PM) I have... Sep 1 2006, 08:29 PM candy_coated_kisses I'm with you guys, I can't stand people li... Sep 1 2006, 05:58 PM Spiritual Winged Aura give her a book about girls w/ low esteem. Sep 1 2006, 06:16 PM hardxcoreL0VER if everyone else realizes this too, someone needs ... Sep 1 2006, 07:07 PM iROCKYOURSOCKS UGH I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE DO THAT!!! s... Sep 1 2006, 07:22 PM Kirsti me and ashley TRY to hang out with her, but shes a... Sep 1 2006, 08:25 PM This Confession QUOTEme and ashley TRY to hang out with her, but s... Sep 1 2006, 10:04 PM x1227x confront her, and tell her your feelings. if she g... Sep 1 2006, 11:40 PM x___F0RG0TTEN i would just tell her the truth. i mean the truth ... Sep 2 2006, 12:31 AM jummony heres a play i wrote for you lol
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You: ... Sep 4 2006, 01:21 AM Kirsti awh, you guys/girls are great.
such good advice
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