The best way to deal with people you dislike. Options

[Mistress Bags]

I've met some people who believe that when you don't like people, you're supposed to act venomously, letting your hatred be very visible. Others believe it's complicated, so when they don't like someone, they keep it to themselves, not wanting to stir up any uncomfortable situations.

Do you believe doing the latter makes you two-faced? Which category do you fall in, and why?

Discuss.

[starlette]

I make people aware that I don't like them without directly putting any hostility or anger towards them. Its like...a vibe I get. People know when they are no longer my friends. I mean thats people who do really mean things like call me out in a blog all over the internet and write in a song about how I'm a self addicted beauty queen. *ahem* She knows good and well I don't care for her but I have never showed any anger hater agression or even retaliation towards her. Now with people that are just rude or annoying and I don't like them, I tell them straight up what it is about ther attitude that I do not like. Because if a person is having a bad day i want to give them a chance to realize their behaviour. Cuz sometimes people are rude and dont think about it. So I try and say things like, you know that wasnt neccesary, or your tone is very offensive, or the way you are treating me is unacceptable, and if they don't get the hint I just say f**k em. Negatativity isnt worth any extra effort. If they want to be ptty or rude or whatever, you cant change them and they will try to piss you off and if you let them succeed then they win. If you stay cool and never retaliate, they just look like fools.