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[stephayyy]

i have been with my boyfriend for 18 months but now he doesnt pay as much attention to me am i being to clingy?
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[*Uronacid*]

Don't make the girl worry for no reason... although it is a possibility, you shouldn't worry until it accually happens or you have reason to believe (other than the way he is acting)... You do need to talk to him and tell him how you feel tho. Relationships do slow down over time though. It happens in every relationsihp (some faster than others). Do you really expect to have the same burning fire passion you had when you start a relationship throughout the entire course of your relationship? Eventually people become so secure in their relationship that they don't talk as much, and end up talking only when they have to or when they want to hang out. The person in the relationship almost becomes a family member to you. That's why so many people say to watch how your <boyfriend/girlfriend> treats their <mother/father> because outside of being intimate they will treat you in a similar fassion... It may just be that he's used to you... talk to him... tell him how to feel, and tell him you need that attention to feel loved (if you do).