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shinysparkle3
post Aug 25 2006, 07:53 PM
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okay, so my ex boyfreind, jeremy, broke up with me. he said that he didnt want to and that he still liked me. i was sad blah blah blah. so on wedsnesday he was gonna come over. on the bus that afternoon he kissed me.. on the lips! and like he was writing "i heart you" on his hand with arrows pointing towards me and on paper then giving it to me. so when he got to my house he was like all over me, flirting with me, hugging me, and like stuff. so we went for a walk and i asked him why he broke up with me. he said that he hates having a girlfriend and stuff.

he says he still likes me because the other day, on sunday night, i asked him if he still liked me and he got mad and was like "feelings dont change over night!" and he still wants me to go on vacation with him to georgia.

do you think he will ever change? and maybe WANT a girlfriend?
 
 
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post Aug 25 2006, 11:42 PM
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Well, if he broke up with you then it's over. Him saying that he didn't want to be in a relationship shouldn't be used as an excuse. You never know who you meet and how you might feel about them. You have to let things happen and not force them. So that excuse is out the window.

If he's doing little things like that maybe he's remorseful for what he's done. But he can't pretend that he never broke up with you. If you don't want to be with him, let him know. Communication is key.

If you still want to be friends with him, I doubt it'll be able to happen because if he still has feelings for you that's a road you don't want to travel.

Make it clear to him that you have boundries and make sure he respects that.
 

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Kirsti   he is soo confusing   Aug 25 2006, 07:53 PM
marzipan   I think this belongs in relationships. Moved to R...   Aug 25 2006, 07:55 PM
Dreamerx   I understand. I'm sort of in the same position...   Aug 25 2006, 08:10 PM
This Confession   You have to accept if someone doesn't want to ...   Aug 25 2006, 09:54 PM
Tamacracker   Uh basically what he's sayin is... I don't...   Aug 25 2006, 10:27 PM
Angelina Taylor   What an ass. Tell him that you either get back to...   Aug 25 2006, 10:34 PM
iROCKYOURSOCKS   QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Aug 25 2006, 10:3...   Aug 26 2006, 10:43 AM
_sarcastic_   ^agreed. he shouldn't be doing this to you (th...   Aug 25 2006, 11:35 PM
WHIMSICAL 0NE   Well, if he broke up with you then it's over. ...   Aug 25 2006, 11:42 PM
Kirsti   he tells me that he didnt want to break up with th...   Aug 26 2006, 08:19 AM
oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo   Give him time. Maybe he will come around to relize...   Aug 26 2006, 10:54 AM
Tamacracker   What, after he messes around with plenty of other ...   Aug 26 2006, 03:59 PM
pinayprincess   idiot! ... [i mean ur ex] just make sure he is...   Aug 26 2006, 04:32 PM
xxscottypottyxx   you kno im a guy and im confused O_o i personally ...   Aug 26 2006, 05:08 PM
x___F0RG0TTEN   hmm.. well i think you should probably consider ot...   Aug 26 2006, 05:14 PM
Kirsti   yeah, i have been like flirting with other guys he...   Aug 27 2006, 08:30 AM
yrrnotelekktric   i say talk to him about it. in person.   Aug 27 2006, 12:08 PM
Kirsti   yeah, that's what i have been doing. because ...   Aug 27 2006, 01:18 PM


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