Advice..? hmm?, cheater, cheater |
Advice..? hmm?, cheater, cheater |
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Well I'm sorta lost. I'm in a long distance relationship rite? Yeah, so last summer my boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend. I forgave him for it. Right now, we're trying to work things out, but we barely ever get to talk bcuhz we're both so busy. I'm trying to get over the fact that he cheated and look forward but I can't help but look back. And I hate bringing it up. I don't know if I should just give up and take a little break with him and try going out with other guys to see what's out there or just stick with him like I've been doing. He's the sweetest guy in the world but I just can't help thinking he's gonna hurt me again. I have more problems with him but yeah. This is mainly the one I'm stuck on.
So i ask u "strangers" for advice. Do I forget about his mistake and give him another chance to prove himself? OR Do I make him realise what he had? |
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Well if you really like this guy and you want it work then you both need to make time for each other out of your busy schedules and talk to each other. Look the first rule/step in a long distance relationship is communication. If you can't even have that then the relationship will go completely down the tubes.
It up to you if you want it to go on also, and if you can't get over the fact that he cheated on you and hes not putting in any effort to help you throughout this time for you and how you can't get it off your mind, BUT FOR THAT have you even told him how you feel? I don't think you have, so its up to you if you want to end it and move on, or make this relationship work and work harder and talk and express yourself to him. [eh may not be the best, I got sidetracked] |
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