My friend could be gay..., what should i do |
My friend could be gay..., what should i do |
Aug 13 2006, 11:51 PM
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![]() Selv ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 259 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 449,755 |
I have a guy friend who i like hanging out with, but when ever im around him he hugs em and is like ooh baby. At first i thought he was just joking but now he does it evrytime and i cant tell if hes gay and hasn't come out yet or if hes joking. I wanna tell him to stop but i don't know how... What should i do?
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Aug 19 2006, 09:44 PM
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![]() Зачем я? ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 17 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 455,524 |
Well...I've never had gay friends come out to me, it's more like, me coming out to them, from your friends veiw(If he's gay): 9 times out of ten When you come out you just get really nervous cuz' you're afraid your friends won't accept it, so either he's waiting out or he's not gay.
What I think you should do is really think, like think about it, If he is gay will there be a problem? If he's str8 are you comfortable telling him you don't like him doing that with you? So really it's just a matter of gathering the courage, and to expect the unexpected. Because if you're that close it's not really about sounding wrong or right, because friends always give you a chance to go into a looonnngggg explination, it's about just saying it to him. |
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Selv My friend could be gay... Aug 13 2006, 11:51 PM
hardxcoreL0VER you could say stuff like "dude thats so gay... Aug 14 2006, 12:04 AM
candy_coated_kisses QUOTE(hardxcoreL0VER @ Aug 14 2006, 1:04 ... Aug 14 2006, 06:42 AM

BonneVache QUOTE(candy_coated_kisses @ Aug 14 2006, 7... Aug 21 2006, 01:41 PM
spagettisyrup QUOTE(hardxcoreL0VER @ Aug 13 2006, 10:04... Aug 21 2006, 11:53 AM
This Confession You just come right out and tell him how you feel ... Aug 14 2006, 12:04 AM
cassjamminx if you really think that he might be because of ho... Aug 14 2006, 12:10 AM
satch If it is bugging you or uncomfortable to you then ... Aug 14 2006, 12:15 AM
I Shot JFK The way you handle it depends on whether or not yo... Aug 14 2006, 09:04 AM
SOOPER jue. Just come out and say it to him, don't wait to... Aug 14 2006, 12:57 PM
Kristinaa Just ask him if he is or not. Aug 14 2006, 01:57 PM
Selv Well the problem is i am very close to him and i c... Aug 14 2006, 04:42 PM
iROCKYOURSOCKS QUOTE(Selv @ Aug 14 2006, 4:42 PM) Well t... Aug 14 2006, 06:25 PM
Kristinaa QUOTE(Selv @ Aug 14 2006, 4:42 PM) Well t... Aug 14 2006, 06:37 PM
The E-Man You could engage in a convo about gay people and m... Aug 14 2006, 06:32 PM
yrrnotelekktric QUOTE(The E-Man @ Aug 14 2006, 3:32 ... Aug 14 2006, 11:20 PM
artisticpariah A guy who hugs another guy? hmmm could be gay... t... Aug 14 2006, 07:46 PM
Uronacid OMgosh... I have a friend like this... it's mu... Aug 14 2006, 08:26 PM
bobby james He could be. Wouldn't put it pass him
When I w... Aug 14 2006, 08:33 PM
broken inside If he trys to hug you stop him, if he thinks it... Aug 14 2006, 08:47 PM
tooeffingcrazy Don't, don't, don't out him.
If he IS... Aug 14 2006, 11:23 PM
Le DaNi Eh, I have a couple of gay friends that I allow to... Aug 15 2006, 10:31 AM
femme_fatale4160 I agree about the joking, "Man, that's so... Aug 15 2006, 10:34 AM
Uronacid QUOTE(femme_fatale4160 @ Aug 15 2006, 11... Aug 15 2006, 12:14 PM
bobby james QUOTE(femme_fatale4160 @ Aug 15 2006, 8:3... Aug 16 2006, 07:16 AM
ktsou11 he'll tell you in time if he really were. my f... Aug 17 2006, 01:10 PM
actorderick don't say to him "hey that is so gay... Aug 19 2006, 09:16 PM
L!ckitySplit well if he's gay dont be his friend. because t... Aug 19 2006, 09:50 PM
arielrel QUOTE(L!ckitySplit @ Aug 19 2006, 9:5... Aug 19 2006, 09:59 PM
Trinie i think you should wait until he tells you he is g... Sep 27 2006, 11:05 AM
My Cinderella. Maybe he's just..friendly? Well, you can do wh... Sep 27 2006, 06:22 PM![]() ![]() |