Porn - Yes Or No? Options

[minnesotan987]

I've been in a relationship, not serious for about a year. It's nothing official however we live together. I've caught him on multiple occasions looking at porn. Most times, it's suppose to be when I'm asleep, however, I sleep light (he knows this) & the computers are in our bedroom.

What's your guys view with porn in a relationship? Is it okay to not get irritated & let them look at it, or is it okay to get annoyed at the fact their looking at it & not being intimate with you?

Most people I've talked to have said "it's a guy thing" however we've had multiple arguments about this.

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This post has been edited by Kathleen: Aug 18 2006, 12:06 PM

[*Uronacid*]

Yeah, I used to look at it all the time... XD, I had a girlfriend at the time, and my sister caught me. She told me it was kind of like cheating... I mean drooling over naked women other than my girlfriend... I have to admit, I feel pretty guilty now when I look at porn... I have done it a few times this year, but I really try hard not to... It's honestly, like satch said, "A guy thing"... It's a guys instinct to want sex. Sex is almost considered a need for most guys. We are all pigs deep down inside, but that's just how it is. We can't help but think these thoughts. Some learn to control it better than others, but in some way shape or form all of us need an outlet. Some way to get out our sexual side. Whether it's porn, jerking off (with our fathers, LMAO Bobby... HAHA), talking about it, preforming sexual acts, or doing something else, you have to let that out. Many people who tell you otherwise has either had some sort of sexual truamatic experience that keeps themfrom thinking about it in a good way (I'm saying that with all seriousness), or they're lying to you.