Porn - Yes Or No? Options

[minnesotan987]

I've been in a relationship, not serious for about a year. It's nothing official however we live together. I've caught him on multiple occasions looking at porn. Most times, it's suppose to be when I'm asleep, however, I sleep light (he knows this) & the computers are in our bedroom.

What's your guys view with porn in a relationship? Is it okay to not get irritated & let them look at it, or is it okay to get annoyed at the fact their looking at it & not being intimate with you?

Most people I've talked to have said "it's a guy thing" however we've had multiple arguments about this.

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This post has been edited by Kathleen: Aug 18 2006, 12:06 PM

[satch]

I've been in a relationship, not serious for about a year. It's nothing official however we live together. I've caught him on multiple occasions looking at porn. Most times, it's suppose to be when I'm asleep, however, I sleep light (he knows this) & the computers are in our bedroom.

What's your guys view with porn in a relationship? Is it okay to not get irritated & let them look at it, or is it okay to get annoyed at the fact their looking at it & not being intimate with you?

Most people I've talked to have said "it's a guy thing" however we've had multiple arguments about this.

Topic moved.

I am going to give you a guys point of view on this, guys look at other girls and porn if they tell you they don't they are lying. It is I guess you can call it a guy thing, but I think it is in our blood or whatever you want to call it. A guy can be with the most awsome girl in the world BUT still look. It does not mean he does not Love/like you it is just something we do. My wife knows that I look at other girls and I will look at porn (once in a while busy house here for me) and sometimes she will watch or look at it with me.

And girls you look at other guys to come on, maybe not so much porn (guys are more visual then women hence the 100,000,000 strip clubs out there) it does not bother me at all.