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In Your Honest Opinion
DisOriental85
post Aug 15 2006, 10:46 AM
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Ok... I met this girl twice and I was interested in her... When I was starting to hang out with her and her friends, she started dating one of my friends. I got the guts to ask her after she and my friend broke up a while back, out to dinner and a movie on Sat night... I expected a distinct "no" but instead I get "I'm off Wednesday..." We didn't make exact plans until Sunday Night... We decided that I would pick her up after I get off work and we would go eat, then a movie or a nice walk along the Riverwalk. So comes Monday afternoon, while she is at work, she texts me and asks if its ok for her to cancel on me and hang out with her friend before she moves to Florida next week. I didn't want to get in between anything so I said sure.
Maybe I'm looking too into this, but I think she didn't want to go out with me in the first place, but couldn't say no and now came up with an excuse. I'm not saying she is lying about herself moving next week, but I just feel that I was led on and then crushed... Although, I'm really not crushed, it's just that it would've been better if I had received the truthful answer in the beginning. Anybody have any ideas?
 
 
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me1issaaaa
post Aug 17 2006, 02:26 PM
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Well, I'm not going to lie, there is a chance that she didn't want to... however, it looks like you're just looking too much into this. She gave you a reasonable excuse - she is moving away next week. Because of that, I wouldn't worry about it too much... I mean, she's moving. Logically, it'd be pretty hard to see her often if anything were to happen. Next time you talk to her, just casually ask if she'd like to reschedule. If she doesn't really make any kind of effort, I'd back off. You don't wanna seem pushy, y'know? I don't think there's really anything to worry about right now. Good luck [:

Edit - oops, you already did that. Well... good luck anyway!
 

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