In Your Honest Opinion |
 Aug 15 2006, 10:46 AM
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Ok... I met this girl twice and I was interested in her... When I was starting to hang out with her and her friends, she started dating one of my friends. I got the guts to ask her after she and my friend broke up a while back, out to dinner and a movie on Sat night... I expected a distinct "no" but instead I get "I'm off Wednesday..." We didn't make exact plans until Sunday Night... We decided that I would pick her up after I get off work and we would go eat, then a movie or a nice walk along the Riverwalk. So comes Monday afternoon, while she is at work, she texts me and asks if its ok for her to cancel on me and hang out with her friend before she moves to Florida next week. I didn't want to get in between anything so I said sure.
Maybe I'm looking too into this, but I think she didn't want to go out with me in the first place, but couldn't say no and now came up with an excuse. I'm not saying she is lying about herself moving next week, but I just feel that I was led on and then crushed... Although, I'm really not crushed, it's just that it would've been better if I had received the truthful answer in the beginning. Anybody have any ideas? |
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Aug 17 2006, 02:15 PM
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I guess I am looking TOO into this situation... My reasons for doing so is that I've heard some people are like that... Where they tell you yeah and then at the last minute, they cancel on you or leave you hanging... So I was just making sure... Now, I'm not saying that EVERYONE does this, its just that I was curious to know what others felt and if they felt the same as me. I was proven wrong, but you can't say you wouldn't have felt the same... I hope I'm not offending anyone, because my goal is not to... I was just stating my views. Thanks for the insight, it made me feel better, and yes, I guess I'm over it... I did talk to her again. I asked that maybe we could hangout before she leaves and she hasn't replied at all... It's ok... I'm used to rejections... Isn't it how we deal with rejections and the painful roller coaster ride that make us a better person? Well, another lesson learned and now to keep trying... Thanks again!
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Rhaith In Your Honest Opinion Aug 15 2006, 10:46 AM
candy_coated_kisses It seems like you are looking a little too into th... Aug 15 2006, 11:07 AM Uronacid yeah, you have to take what she's saying at fa... Aug 15 2006, 11:53 AM iROCKYOURSOCKS its awful when people have to over analyze things.... Aug 15 2006, 01:54 PM femme_fatale4160 ^Ditto. She's known her friend longer than yo... Aug 15 2006, 01:59 PM xoxo_koala_kisses_ Well, I'm not going to lie, there is a chance ... Aug 17 2006, 02:26 PM felicity*aka*fe i think if she was just trying to break the date s... Aug 17 2006, 10:35 PM
Venomous Lust Ok i think the fact that you really did like this ... Aug 18 2006, 11:21 AM |
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