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*Uronacid*
post Aug 17 2006, 07:44 AM
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Did you ever know someone who seemed to always want you to open up to them, but never seemed to open up to you in return? You would tell them things, but they rarely wanted to say anything back... They expect you to tell them everything, but they don't expect to tell you anything in return...

*just pokeing your brains*


how did/would it make you feel?

Me:

It would make me feel like I want to pull myself away from the person. I feel like they don't want me to ge to know them... It would drive me away...
 
 
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Listelle
post Aug 17 2006, 11:00 AM
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Yes, I've known people like that. When you first open up to them, it kina makes you think that you're becoming really close friends. But after a while when you get nothing back, you're left feeling kinda used. It's not that you don't like them anymore, they just have a bad after taste. Its like they're using your opening up as a back door to becoming your friend.

But sometimes those kinda relationships work. I have a person who I feel I can any and everything, so he knows all about me. On the flip side, I don't even know if he has a girlfriend. I don't feel used here for some reason. I love talking to him and he listens like noone else does.
 
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post Aug 17 2006, 11:08 AM
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QUOTE(Listelle @ Aug 17 2006, 12:00 PM) *
Yes, I've known people like that. When you first open up to them, it kina makes you think that you're becoming really close friends. But after a while when you get nothing back, you're left feeling kinda used. It's not that you don't like them anymore, they just have a bad after taste. Its like they're using your opening up as a back door to becoming your friend.

But sometimes those kinda relationships work. I have a person who I feel I can any and everything, so he knows all about me. On the flip side, I don't even know if he has a girlfriend. I don't feel used here for some reason. I love talking to him and he listens like noone else does.


Hmmm... I can't say what I'm thinking... I know what you mean about someone who just listens all the time and you don't care what they think or say... It's like really easy then, because you just like... using them as an outlet, and you know that that is the relationship you share with them. What if you really care about what they think?
 

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Uronacid   A Question   Aug 17 2006, 07:44 AM
Listelle   Yes, I've known people like that. When you fir...   Aug 17 2006, 11:00 AM
Uronacid   QUOTE(Listelle @ Aug 17 2006, 12:00 PM) Y...   Aug 17 2006, 11:08 AM
Listelle   Am I using him? I hope not. I don't think its ...   Aug 17 2006, 11:20 AM
Uronacid   QUOTE(Listelle @ Aug 17 2006, 12:20 PM) A...   Aug 17 2006, 11:23 AM
satch   you know it all depends on what kind of relationsh...   Aug 17 2006, 11:38 AM
Uronacid   QUOTE(satch @ Aug 17 2006, 12:38 PM) you ...   Aug 17 2006, 12:01 PM
satch   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Aug 17 2006, 10:01 AM) I...   Aug 17 2006, 12:09 PM
Angelina Taylor   Well I'm kind of like that to some people. Bec...   Aug 17 2006, 12:06 PM
Uronacid   They say nothing... or they accually say, "no...   Aug 17 2006, 12:17 PM
AzNxBaBi   I don't open up period .. at least now, cause ...   Aug 17 2006, 12:22 PM
HopeLessRomanticx3   Yah i have known ppl like that before. But it...   Aug 17 2006, 12:26 PM


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