Your lover (B/F..G/F), What are they to you? Options

[Le DaNi]

Hows your relationship and what do you think of your "other half" =P

[Listelle]

Brandon- He's amazing. He's perfect, wonderful, and completely not what I had been looking for all my life. We still ask each other how in the world we fell for each other. He's got an incredible sense of humor, with a childish streak in him I hope he never outgrows. He's amazingly thoughtful and considerate and kind. I find him so incredibly attractive; his dark skin is beautiful to me. He's my best friend and I'm so comfortable around him to a point I didn't know was possible.

The relationship- He tells me that this is his oddest, but at the same time, best relationship he's been in. We're crazy about each other and we're confident enough in our relationship that we're not on the phone with each other every three seconds. I know he loves me and he knows I love him. With that said, we still have our problems of course. Sometimes he'll claim that we're "confident enough" that a single, short phone call a week should suffice as the only means of communication betweens us. I tend to disagree with that. Also, I can be a very jealous and paranoid person. I've mentioned it somewhere before, but a couple of his exes have made passes at him and I'm worred what college is going to do to us. We're both going to have a lot less time and we already talk so little. Being with him has been the best 20 or so months of my life and I'm afraid of losing that. I've talked to him, but sometimes the fear of being hurt just makes me want to quit while I'm ahead.

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Brandon- He's amazing. He's perfect, wonderful, and completely not what I had been looking for all my life. We still ask each other how in the world we fell for each other. He's got an incredible sense of humor, with a childish streak in him I hope he never outgrows. He's amazingly thoughtful and considerate and kind. I find him so incredibly attractive; his dark skin is beautiful to me. He's my best friend and I'm so comfortable around him to a point I didn't know was possible.

The relationship- He tells me that this is his oddest, but at the same time, best relationship he's been in. We're crazy about each other and we're confident enough in our relationship that we're not on the phone with each other every three seconds. I know he loves me and he knows I love him. With that said, we still have our problems of course. Sometimes he'll claim that we're "confident enough" that a single, short phone call a week should suffice as the only means of communication betweens us. I tend to disagree with that. Also, I can be a very jealous and paranoid person. I've mentioned it somewhere before, but a couple of his exes have made passes at him and I'm worred what college is going to do to us. We're both going to have a lot less time and we already talk so little. Being with him has been the best 20 or so months of my life and I'm afraid of losing that. I've talked to him, but sometimes the fear of being hurt just makes me want to quit while I'm ahead.

BE careful.... don't spend so much time with him that you forget everyone else. :]

[Listelle]

BE careful.... don't spend so much time with him that you forget everyone else. :]

Thanks and I'll try not to. But at it is, if we manage to see each other once a week during the summer when we have ooddles of free time and live twenty minutes from each other its a been a good week. And seeing each other equals him stopping by while I'm making Frapps at work. I'm just worried that if thats how it is now, what happens when we we're actually busy? And yes I've talked to him about it, but to no avail.