masturbating with other guys doesn' t mean you are GAY Options

[bobby james]

Why do people put gay on everything?!
My father is sure not gay because my mom and him are married and they had me of course, and ALSO to the people that said he is sick and I am sick, you are sick for thinking of it that way.
Anyways, masturbating with other guys is just that. I used to do that with my old friend in the room BEFORE i was gay. People who say it is gay have probably done it before, most guys will eventually do this in their lifetime.

[bobby james]

it's not the fact we care that he does it, it's the fact that he makes 10 topics flaunting that it happens. of course, like rebecca said, each his own, but the reason people are getting so into it and bashing is because of the reoccuring topics. honestly, we don't care what he does in his spare time, but he acts as if we should know and should accept it... that is what is getting people upset. let's all just let it go and pretend like we care... at least.

The deoderant question wasn't flaunting anything, the other masturbation question wasn't flaunting anything, my question in the fashion section isn't. and this isn't...So, where did it come from? Or could it be that you are just looking too hard to see if I was "flaunting" something? You only see what you choose to Stop being such a drama queen and exaggerating. This is what makes some of you guys look like you care because you get all technical with it and then make unreasonable assumptions

You're contradicting yourself! If you think it's disturbing AND gross, why do YOU keep coming back?
Besides, like I stated earlier on, this is a forum. I can post on whichever topic I please. I don't find his post to be offensive, but I find it to be disturbing. There's a difference.

It's one thing to state that you think it is gross and then try to debate with me on the statement I made, good, I'm cool with that, I like debating. But MY comment and what he was agreeing on was initially to the people that would put "this is disturbing" and bashed without putting ANYTHING reasonable, OR it's the one's that acted all "disgusted, I'm gonna die if I see something like this" but still came in and still replied That doesn't neccessarily mean he was talking to you or I was talking about you sweetie And I know you were talking to URONACID, but I decided to put my 5 cents in.

Again, I for one keep 'coming back' because I posted here and I'm also trying to understand the topic starter's way of thinking.

Good luck. After you stated your opinion and stood firm by it, it's hard to think you are trying to understand.

So for the topic like I said I do not think that it makes you gay, not my thing to do but I do not think that it makes you gay.....but you say you are gay what I do not understand is why does it bother you so much to start a topic like this??

It wasn't really bothersome, just something I felt like doing. Welp, the gay label was thrown at the person I was masturbating with and I feel that he is not gay, or anyone that does that is. Some people do. But that's life.

[*Uronacid*]

The deoderant question wasn't flaunting anything, the other masturbation question wasn't flaunting anything, my question in the fashion section isn't. and this isn't...So, where did it come from? Or could it be that you are just looking too hard to see if I was "flaunting" something? You only see what you choose to Stop being such a drama queen and exaggerating. This is what makes some of you guys look like you care because you get all technical with it and then make unreasonable assumptions
It's one thing to state that you think it is gross and then try to debate with me on the statement I made, good, I'm cool with that, I like debating. But MY comment and what he was agreeing on was initially to the people that would put "this is disturbing" and bashed without putting ANYTHING reasonable, OR it's the one's that acted all "disgusted, I'm gonna die if I see something like this" but still came in and still replied That doesn't neccessarily mean he was talking to you or I was talking about you sweetie And I know you were talking to URONACID, but I decided to put my 5 cents in.
Good luck. After you stated your opinion and stood firm by it, it's hard to think you are trying to understand.

It wasn't really bothersome, just something I felt like doing. Welp, the gay label was thrown at the person I was masturbating with and I feel that he is not gay, or anyone that does that is. Some people do. But that's life.

yeah, thanks for putting in your two cents... I completely agree with you, I personally believe that you just have a very odd life style compared to most men... you and your family seem to be very open about things. I guess if your family does that... well, it's your buisness. As-long-as you're doing it behind closed doors, and its a mutual thing (neither of you are being forced to do it/being put up to the task against your will). I really don't see a problem with you doing it.... but me personally I would never do that XD