problem with the love, need some help on this |
problem with the love, need some help on this |
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![]() i love my lady yup yup! ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 28 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,518 ![]() |
ok, so i have been together with my love for 1 year and 5 months. we are happy right now. i dont think anything to this point, could break us apart.
but this flashback from last summer keeps on coming to my head. my girl and I went out to Missouri to see some friends and family. she went off and done whatever with her friends. i trusted her. but this one boy, i could tell, really wanted my girl. that one night, he kissed her. i wanted to beat the crap outta the guy. but i couldnt, because there were plenty of cops around there. still to this day, i want to beat the living hell out of him. my girlfriend still talks to him. he lives all the way in TX, and we are in Michigan. so what could he do, right? but i saw him again a couple weeks ago. he was giving me and my boys dirty looks. i was like.. wth, i let you talk to my girl without hesitation, why are you giving me these looks? so this solution comes to my mind... i want to tell my girlfriend to stop talking to this bastard. is it the right thing to do?? i mean, it brings back bad memories when i hear or see him. he's such an ass i need some feedback, i want to tell her ASAP. |
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![]() f.a.g. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 137 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 432,847 ![]() |
Yes, it is the right thing to do. Let me tell you...
If she doesn't stop and you don't tell her, it will always stick with you. The memory and the fact that she is not aware that it is hurting will haunt you. And believe it or not, your relationship will eventually fade, crash, and burn if you do not get it off of your chest. Not having trust can break a relationship more than anything and so does bad memories. It's not wrong, you're saving the relationship ahead of time. |
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