I miss him Options

[Spazzzmatic]

I met this guy over the summer at a camp and we liked each other a lot. During the last week, we hooked up. We didn't really say anything about it or anything, and now that camp's ended, we're stuck on opposite sides of the country. I miss him so much & it hurts so bad because I know we liked each other and the only reason be didn't become bf/gf was cause summer flings never end up that way. But now, I don't know whether I should keep in contact with him (call, email) or just try to forget him and give up. What works better to get over a guy you're never going to see for the rest of your life? I want to call him. To hear his voice and maybe just stay in constant contact even if I won't actually see him. But I want to forget about him also. I am hurting so bad right now =(

[mystikmiko]

my advice:

try calling him - ask him hows he been, etc.
just start a conv. - i'll help

i know how you feel i was dating this guy all throughout since v-day till our grad night. we broke up because he thought it wouldn't last, and eventually we'll drift apart...
but it's ok, let time heal the pain.

trust me you'll never forget your first summer love, i know i wouldn't :)
good luck!!