I feel like we're drifting. |
I feel like we're drifting. |
Aug 15 2006, 10:11 AM
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Me and my girlfriend.. been together for a while now.. almost a year. But I haven't seen much of her lately.. We just got over somewhat of a break but still I don't feel the same when I'm around her. Like if she doesn't want me around or something. We haven't talked or seen each other even for almost a week now. We used to talk over the phone for hours, but not anymore.. and if there ever is a phone call anymore it lasts but 5 minutes long.. Yet she continues to tell me she loves me. This isn't a problem when we're face to face.. but when shes not around I don't even feel like I'm her boyfriend anymore. Is she trying to tell me something? Help
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Aug 15 2006, 10:56 AM
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The break was her idea.. I wasn't a fan of it but yeah. I wanted to give her the space she wanted and now I still have that attitude as to me giving her space. But I feel as though we're too distant now and she'd rather spend time with other people than me. Which is perfectly fine but it still has me thinking where I stand in this whole thing.. Thanks for both of your replies.. I'll keep trying but if its space she wants then its what shes going to have
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| *Uronacid* |
Aug 15 2006, 12:04 PM
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The break was her idea.. I wasn't a fan of it but yeah. I wanted to give her the space she wanted and now I still have that attitude as to me giving her space. But I feel as though we're too distant now and she'd rather spend time with other people than me. Which is perfectly fine but it still has me thinking where I stand in this whole thing.. Thanks for both of your replies.. I'll keep trying but if its space she wants then its what shes going to have If you don't understand... talk to her about it. other than that: Look man, if you aren't happy with a relationship, and you need someone who is going to give you attention or act like they want to spend time with you. You need to find someone who will. This sounds so similar to my first girl friend. She took a break from me brecause she wanted space... I need someone who is willng to share things with me. In return I need to be able to share everything with them. I also need someone who will show me that they want to be with me. I know that I couldn't have it any other way. If I didn't have it that I wouldn't be happy. f you arn't happy, and you feel that you aren't happy with your relationship than I suggest you get out. You are young, and there are pleanty of other girls out there. |
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