I feel like we're drifting. Options

[Le DaNi]

Me and my girlfriend.. been together for a while now.. almost a year. But I haven't seen much of her lately.. We just got over somewhat of a break but still I don't feel the same when I'm around her. Like if she doesn't want me around or something. We haven't talked or seen each other even for almost a week now. We used to talk over the phone for hours, but not anymore.. and if there ever is a phone call anymore it lasts but 5 minutes long.. Yet she continues to tell me she loves me. This isn't a problem when we're face to face.. but when shes not around I don't even feel like I'm her boyfriend anymore. Is she trying to tell me something? Help

[*This Confession*]

Sometimes people drift apart, easpecially over having breaks. Sometimes it does strengthen a relationships and others it makes them fall apart. Why did you guys choose to be on a break in the first place?

Also you need to talk to her, get her opinion on things and ask her how she is feeling. Show her that you care and you want to talk to him and know what shes thinking. Perhaps she worried about something or she feels the same way.


It is summer as well, school is starting really soon. And its pretty busy for a lot of people. Perhaps shes really busy and she doesn't have a lot of time on her hands, she does love you but sometimes people are busy and you have to finish one thing to get to another. Perhaps ask her how her day has been going, and what she has done. Any other questions that would end up answering your final question. Don't wait for her to call you and call her

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

It is summer as well, school is starting really soon. And its pretty busy for a lot of people. Perhaps shes really busy and she doesn't have a lot of time on her hands, she does love you but sometimes people are busy and you have to finish one thing to get to another. Perhaps ask her how her day has been going, and what she has done. Any other questions that would end up answering your final question. Don't wait for her to call you and call her

Yes. Thank you, you said it 10x better then any thing I could have said. I know people go in to crazy moad right before school starts. They start going every where. They go shopping and think about what they are going to have to put up with this up coming year. There is also some people that take school lightly and go with the flow. I just don't know which one your girl friend is.