dating trouble., in need of help |
dating trouble., in need of help |
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well first of all, ive been dating this guy S for like... 2 weeks now to know more about each other and to see if we click. but before, when i JUST met him, it seemed like we really did click. but then, after we decided to start dating we stopped talking. even when we're alone, we dont talk. just silence. hes mexican, im japanese, i dont care but maybe he thinks im lame and immature, since im gonna be a soph and hes going to be a senior. in summer classes, when we were outside for break or a"meet" they start playing cards, and i feel left out. so i walk away so he doesnt see that im lonely. or more like, i WANT him to notice me. But hes too busy having fun playing cards with friends. he sometimes looks at me but i turn away and look the other way. and also, he calls me, but often times he starts talking to his cousins or someone thats right next to him and i would be on hold for like 10 minutes. then he has to go. im troubled by that thought because i really really like him, but im too shy. or something like that. its impossible for me to talk a lot with him. i feel like im like him so much more than he likes me.
please help me. points to remember: -he asked me to start dating -he first im-ed me -he called me, 2 times before, i was asleep and didnt pickup. but the other 2 times i did. - there still is V, K, H, E and J that like me. dont know how to tell them. i dont have the nerve. - he hangs out with a girl that practically hates me. shes his best gal friend. -he comments her often but not me - dont have anything to talk about anymore. should i just give up and this guy and try to like one of the other 5 guys that like me? theyve known me for the whole year and ive only known for less than 3 months. |
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![]() I'm a monkey ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 438,676 ![]() |
So you don't like the way this guy is treating you. You need to either talk to him about it or move on. By the way you're talking, it sounds like you don't have much interest in him anyway. You seem really nervous about having a relationship too. You should be able to talk to your boyfriend. If it were me, I'd break up with him. Good luck!
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