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My friend could be gay..., what should i do
Selv
post Aug 13 2006, 11:51 PM
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I have a guy friend who i like hanging out with, but when ever im around him he hugs em and is like ooh baby. At first i thought he was just joking but now he does it evrytime and i cant tell if hes gay and hasn't come out yet or if hes joking. I wanna tell him to stop but i don't know how... What should i do?
 
 
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Selv
post Aug 14 2006, 04:42 PM
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Well the problem is i am very close to him and i could tell him anything. But i don't want him to have to be uncomfortable telling me. I mean if i do ask him and he doesnt want to tell me wont he be mad? sad.gif
 
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post Aug 14 2006, 06:37 PM
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QUOTE(Selv @ Aug 14 2006, 4:42 PM) *
Well the problem is i am very close to him and i could tell him anything. But i don't want him to have to be uncomfortable telling me. I mean if i do ask him and he doesnt want to tell me wont he be mad? sad.gif



If you can tell him anything, then he should be able to tell you anything. Just be nice about it. And dont pressure him a lot.
 

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Selv   My friend could be gay...   Aug 13 2006, 11:51 PM
hardxcoreL0VER   you could say stuff like "dude thats so gay...   Aug 14 2006, 12:04 AM
candy_coated_kisses   QUOTE(hardxcoreL0VER @ Aug 14 2006, 1:04 ...   Aug 14 2006, 06:42 AM
BonneVache   QUOTE(candy_coated_kisses @ Aug 14 2006, 7...   Aug 21 2006, 01:41 PM
spagettisyrup   QUOTE(hardxcoreL0VER @ Aug 13 2006, 10:04...   Aug 21 2006, 11:53 AM
This Confession   You just come right out and tell him how you feel ...   Aug 14 2006, 12:04 AM
cassjamminx   if you really think that he might be because of ho...   Aug 14 2006, 12:10 AM
satch   If it is bugging you or uncomfortable to you then ...   Aug 14 2006, 12:15 AM
I Shot JFK   The way you handle it depends on whether or not yo...   Aug 14 2006, 09:04 AM
SOOPER jue.   Just come out and say it to him, don't wait to...   Aug 14 2006, 12:57 PM
Kristinaa   Just ask him if he is or not.   Aug 14 2006, 01:57 PM
Selv   Well the problem is i am very close to him and i c...   Aug 14 2006, 04:42 PM
iROCKYOURSOCKS   QUOTE(Selv @ Aug 14 2006, 4:42 PM) Well t...   Aug 14 2006, 06:25 PM
Kristinaa   QUOTE(Selv @ Aug 14 2006, 4:42 PM) Well t...   Aug 14 2006, 06:37 PM
The E-Man   You could engage in a convo about gay people and m...   Aug 14 2006, 06:32 PM
yrrnotelekktric   QUOTE(The E-Man @ Aug 14 2006, 3:32 ...   Aug 14 2006, 11:20 PM
artisticpariah   A guy who hugs another guy? hmmm could be gay... t...   Aug 14 2006, 07:46 PM
Uronacid   OMgosh... I have a friend like this... it's mu...   Aug 14 2006, 08:26 PM
bobby james   He could be. Wouldn't put it pass him When I w...   Aug 14 2006, 08:33 PM
broken inside   If he trys to hug you stop him, if he thinks it...   Aug 14 2006, 08:47 PM
tooeffingcrazy   Don't, don't, don't out him. If he IS...   Aug 14 2006, 11:23 PM
Le DaNi   Eh, I have a couple of gay friends that I allow to...   Aug 15 2006, 10:31 AM
femme_fatale4160   I agree about the joking, "Man, that's so...   Aug 15 2006, 10:34 AM
Uronacid   QUOTE(femme_fatale4160 @ Aug 15 2006, 11...   Aug 15 2006, 12:14 PM
bobby james   QUOTE(femme_fatale4160 @ Aug 15 2006, 8:3...   Aug 16 2006, 07:16 AM
ktsou11   he'll tell you in time if he really were. my f...   Aug 17 2006, 01:10 PM
actorderick   don't say to him "hey that is so gay...   Aug 19 2006, 09:16 PM
arielrel   Well...I've never had gay friends come out to ...   Aug 19 2006, 09:44 PM
L!ckitySplit   well if he's gay dont be his friend. because t...   Aug 19 2006, 09:50 PM
arielrel   QUOTE(L!ckitySplit @ Aug 19 2006, 9:5...   Aug 19 2006, 09:59 PM
Trinie   i think you should wait until he tells you he is g...   Sep 27 2006, 11:05 AM
My Cinderella.   Maybe he's just..friendly? Well, you can do wh...   Sep 27 2006, 06:22 PM


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