is the first the hardest? |
 Aug 7 2006, 05:37 PM
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is a first boyfriend the hardest to get over??? cuz i was with this guy and i guess were done but i anbsolutely cant get over him ...its only been a day but im just dieing...its not only mentally and emotionally killing me but its actually causing me stomach pain and headaches and it hasnt left my mind for one second!! help!?!?
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| *Uronacid* |
Aug 9 2006, 06:32 PM
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Hi, I had this same problem with my first girl-friend. your first love is usually what causes this kind of pain. Just so happens that many times people pour everything they have into their first relaitonship. I know your hurt, but you have to keep going. It's difficult, everything seems grey and blurry... the things people say to you probably sound distorted becuase of all the voices and thoughts running through your head.
Keep yourself busy, and try to hang out with your friends. Do things, go for walks, wright down your thoughts, work out... try to do phisical things. Also, talk to your friends about it. Don't keep it in... the more you let out, the less time it will take to get over the situation. What was it that caused the breakup? |
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Aug 9 2006, 11:59 PM
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QUOTE(Uronacid @ Aug 9 2006, 7:32 PM)  Keep yourself busy, and try to hang out with your friends. Do things, go for walks, wright down your thoughts, work out... try to do phisical things. Also, talk to your friends about it. Don't keep it in... the more you let out, the less time it will take to get over the situation. What was it that caused the breakup? well technically we dint break up cuz we were never going out but it was as close to going out with out having labels ...we've said "i love you" to eachother tons of times...but it wasnt like old already that it lost its true meaning...we both said it everytime with full meaning...but yea so what caused this whole "rift" was 1)we stopped talking as often and 2)me n my sis were invited to a party...and so was my guy...and he brought a friend..a girl...and me n my sis were talking to this girl cuz my sis is also friends with this guy so we were being nice to his friend and she mentioned that shes liked him for a while and theyve been hanging out alot lately....so that explains why me n him stopped hanging out.... |
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