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Persona22
post Aug 8 2006, 11:11 AM
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So, there's this guy that I've been into for the past while, and I've come to the realization that he's been playing me like a frickin harp.

He and I met a long time ago, and from then on it was flirtation and the like, but he's ALWAYS had a boyfriend, and is not capable of staying single for five minutes without getting a new guy.

And, just recently, with his newest boyfriend not knowing, he and I have been hanging out, and getting a little hot and heavy. But then there's the fact that the only time he and I ever hang out is when he wants me to get him some music, a movie, help him with groceries, or some other shit.

And despite him telling me that he wants to date me, he is now in a quasi-cheating-relationship with two guys (a couple no less) totally disregarding me in every way.

Now, what I need help or advice in... is how I'm going to end my friendship with him.
I realize it's not healthy for me to be around him anymore, and have subtly hinted that I want nothing to do with him anymore, but he's never been a bright one.
And then there's dealing with the fact that he and I know the same people, go to the same places, etc... awkwardness.

Help anyone?
 
 
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BonneVache
post Aug 9 2006, 10:28 PM
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Just tell him you don't want to deal with it. Don't turn it into "drama", and don't make it some giant issue that ripples on and forces you out of places you enjoy frequenting.
 

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Persona22   dilemma   Aug 8 2006, 11:11 AM
Uronacid   Ok... I'm not sure of this is a joke, but I wo...   Aug 8 2006, 11:28 AM
Persona22   Thanks for the advice. I'm probably just going...   Aug 8 2006, 11:35 AM
Uronacid   QUOTE(Persona22 @ Aug 8 2006, 12:35 PM) T...   Aug 8 2006, 12:13 PM
yrrnotelekktric   Hm. I would just block off communication with him....   Aug 9 2006, 06:43 PM
da_SALSA   he's slow right? the straight up tell him that...   Aug 9 2006, 09:53 PM
BonneVache   Just tell him you don't want to deal with it. ...   Aug 9 2006, 10:28 PM
Kathleen   ^ Yeah, I agree with that. And about your friends ...   Aug 10 2006, 02:08 PM
Persona22   QUOTE(Kathleen @ Aug 10 2006, 2:08 PM) ^ ...   Aug 19 2006, 12:53 AM


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