Part 2 of...what to do what to do..., more in depth Options

[brittney414211]

Ok i dont know if everyone has read the last post by me..."what to do what to do" but i just had some more stuff to say about it...My boyfriend is always making promises to me about stuff like i will come see you and i will call you ect. it always ends up to where he just DONT! im not the type of person that like to get my hopes up for nothing and i hate wasting days thinking he is going to come over at 2 and wont show up til 6 or 7 because he says he parents make him do so many chores before he can leave...and you know that gets old...and im getting tired of it...when i tell HIM im going to do something I DO! perfect example YESTERDAY "i will come see u right after work i promise" but he didnt have time to "I will call you at 9" ended up calling me at 12:30...but now the other guy...keeps his promises..."i will get on msn right when i get home" and he actually does...he doesnt make excuses...i always have to call my boyfriend to ask him why he didnt call or where he is at...and when i do i have to listen to excuses for 10 mins...i mean i love him to death and i dont know what i would do if i didnt have to around but im getting pushed past my limits...and i dont think i could ever break up with him....his family is horrible to him and he looks to me to make his life enjoyable some what and i do but it just doesnt seem like enought for him....when we get in fights or something he is always like i dont know what i would do if i didnt have you...i would probaly just kill myself b/c i dont have n e thing else to live for....then WHY DONT HE TREAT ME BETTER...i feel like he needs me when he is lonley but if he is with friends they take my place and im pushed aside AGAIN..there just isnt a easy way out of it...and i talked to the guy i sort of have a crush on and talked to him about it all...and he made it clear he would always be there if i needed to talk to him about n e thing...which made me feel better :D he is a sweetie!!!!

[*Uronacid*]

A man is only worth as much as his word... There is nothing wrong with holding someone to what they say they are going to do. You are only expecting what he is telling you to expect. There is nothing wrong with you. You are only 2 months into this relationship. If I were you I would tell him that you are considering breaking up with him over this. If he comes back with some lame ,"I'm going to kill myself bit."... Tell him that he is makeing his own choices. Maybe if he was taking responsibilty for his actions and holding himself to his own word, he wouldn't be so depressed.

Call him, and tell him how you feel... if he says he's going to do something hold him to his word.