Um...., when is it selfish? |
| *Uronacid* |
 Aug 7 2006, 01:44 PM
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I'm having a bit of an issue myself... lately I have been not saying things out of fear of them possibly being selfish... like, alright if your consistantly getting nervous about something is it good to keep bringing it up and work on it together or try to ignore it so the your partner doesn't have to deal with your problems and issues? Like I love Holly, and is it truley the best for her if I talk about things that bother me all the time.... maybe sometimes ignorace is bliss... I know she's going to question this topic on the phone now... >.> I have been trying to act like nothing is wrong for the past week. It's working, but the truth is that I'm really stressed out... I haven't been eating much and I'm consistantly getting stomach aches... I'm trying to solve the issues on my own, and talk to my friends about them so she doesn't have too...
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| *Uronacid* |
Aug 9 2006, 03:28 PM
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I've started wrighting a journal.... it's really intresting to see my thoughts all out on paper... I'lll share some later. Right now I can't because it's in the car, but some of the things I think are really intresting... :]
QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Aug 8 2006, 11:40 PM)  No. Relationships are a two way street. It doesn't work if one shares and the other one doesn't. It's not very fair either. There's NOTHING wrong with sharing your troubles. In fact, it makes it easier. I completely agree with you... I think I have troubel sharing my feelings because I view myself as such a problem that I can't understand why someone would want to bear the weight on their shoulders... there is so much more to it than that thoough... |
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