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post Aug 6 2006, 08:55 PM
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cry.gif to break up by text message? im the biggest wuss i know and i dont think i can stand doing it face to face or even by calling. but the text message wont be simple. ive drafted and re-drafted loads of what i was going to say. so do you guys think its okay to do it? thankss.
 
 
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post Aug 8 2006, 04:04 PM
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Oh man, no no no no no.
PLEASE NO! don't break up with him with a text messge.
That is pretty low, I'm sure you don't want to hurt him anymore then you need to, and breaking up with a text message is pretty bad.

If you MUST, then do it over the phone.
But the best way and most respectful way is in person.
If you really are scared, then do what my friend did.
She wrote a letter to him with all of her feelings, listing the reasons why she thought they couldn't be together, and then the next time she saw him, she personally gave him the letter. That would be so much better then a text message!
 

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xx_kiss_me_xx   is it considered lame   Aug 6 2006, 08:55 PM
Vera   Ehhh...yeah I would call it lame. (Sorry). I would...   Aug 6 2006, 09:04 PM
krnxswat   Talk about a f**king pussy.   Aug 6 2006, 09:13 PM
Listelle   Yeah, its lame. Sorry. Suck it up and make the ca...   Aug 6 2006, 09:18 PM
Just2Fresh   Dont do that. Your setting yourself up for disaste...   Aug 6 2006, 09:20 PM
T0rmented_Soul   QUOTE(Just2Fresh @ Aug 6 2006, 7:20 PM) D...   Aug 6 2006, 11:43 PM
silver rain   Yeah, like everyone said, it's lame. Don't...   Aug 6 2006, 09:22 PM
viola_winnie   yeah: (   Aug 6 2006, 09:26 PM
Uronacid   I would have no respect for someone who could not ...   Aug 6 2006, 09:47 PM
candy_coated_kisses   I can't stand people who can't break up wi...   Aug 6 2006, 10:11 PM
M1SSxCHR1SSY   WOw. That's lame. What are you scared of with...   Aug 6 2006, 10:24 PM
Just2Fresh   I think we scared the poor girl.   Aug 6 2006, 11:02 PM
iROCKYOURSOCKS   ugh that is really lame...i mean if this person ev...   Aug 6 2006, 11:30 PM
brownsugar   Oh, come on. The guy deserves better than THAT. Wo...   Aug 6 2006, 11:31 PM
xbabyboo   You should call him.Boost up some confidence.   Aug 7 2006, 12:39 AM
teeners__15   argg don't do it by textmsg@   Aug 7 2006, 01:52 AM
Spiritual Winged Aura   bust your gut ;]   Aug 7 2006, 02:11 AM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   Yes.   Aug 7 2006, 02:32 AM
lol lollipops   Wow, how lame. Do it in person.   Aug 7 2006, 08:02 AM
yrrnotelekktric   Pftt. Don`t even call, just meet up and do it ...   Aug 8 2006, 01:11 AM
just_rissa   That is so lame. He's probably scared your gon...   Aug 8 2006, 01:18 AM
BrokenDream   Seems like everyone agrees; it's lame. Just me...   Aug 8 2006, 01:27 AM
Stately Lover   Yeah it's pretty much lame. And then it's...   Aug 8 2006, 01:18 PM
KissMe2408   Oh man, no no no no no. PLEASE NO! don't b...   Aug 8 2006, 04:04 PM
rorhinna   you HAVE to do it in person. sorry, but you just ...   Aug 8 2006, 05:16 PM
The E-Man   So here is the deal. Text messages are a disaster ...   Aug 8 2006, 05:39 PM
magicfann   its a good idea cuz its 1337   Aug 8 2006, 06:37 PM
french_fries   DON'T EVER BREAK-UP BY TEXT MESSAGE. My ex br...   Aug 8 2006, 10:22 PM
helllla jankyyyy   Are you f**king serious? Yes it will be hella ...   Aug 8 2006, 10:49 PM
candy_coated_kisses   Um any time now we can close this b/c Im pretty su...   Aug 8 2006, 10:52 PM
Angelina Taylor   Yeah, very lame. There's nothing hard in at le...   Aug 8 2006, 10:54 PM
x___F0RG0TTEN   well to me, breaking up in person is perhaps the e...   Aug 8 2006, 10:59 PM
TaintedDesires   If my non existant boyfriend broke up with me over...   Aug 9 2006, 03:43 PM


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