what to do...what to do Options

[brittney414211]

Ive been dating my boyfriend now for almost 9 months. But latley things have became boring from doing the same things all the time. just hanging out with each other everyday, and we're starting to argue alot and just have act like a old married couple. When were not fighting i honestly love him...alot...he is basically my bestfriend...But on the other hand there is another guy. Ive known him forever and ive always liked him...we've been seeing each other just around local places and i talk to him more than even on msn and we text back and forth...ive developed a crush outside of my relationship...im always thinkings about him it seems...and i know he likes me back...how do i deal with loving some one so much but wanting to be with someone else and thinking about them all the time! its bringing me down

[*Uronacid*]

Ive been dating my boyfriend now for almost 9 months. But latley things have became boring from doing the same things all the time. just hanging out with each other everyday, and we're starting to argue alot and just have act like a old married couple. When were not fighting i honestly love him...alot...he is basically my bestfriend...But on the other hand there is another guy. Ive known him forever and ive always liked him...we've been seeing each other just around local places and i talk to him more than even on msn and we text back and forth...ive developed a crush outside of my relationship...im always thinkings about him it seems...and i know he likes me back...how do i deal with loving some one so much but wanting to be with someone else and thinking about them all the time! its bringing me down

Agruements/conflict are something that are always going to occur in a relationship. Two people with different personalities are bound to disagree on things. In a relationship it's up to you to take these arguements and turn them into something possitive. It means you have to compromise and work them out. Maybe you don't feel need to do that, and your looking for other options so that you don't have to.

Do you think that relationship with this new guy is going to be any different 9 months down the road? People are attracted to what they don't know. I personaly believe that you you like this guy becuase you don't know as much about him. People are attacted to people that they don't know because:

THEY DON'T KNOW ANYTHING AND CAN HOPE THAT THE PERSON IS EVERYTHING THEY DREAMED.

This concept is very unrealistic, but it's deffinitly true. People do this all the time. That's why when a guy/girl gives another guy/girl "the look", and that guy/girl giving you the look is attractive. You like them. You don't know them, it doesn't make sense, but that's exactly why you like them in the first place.