what to do...what to do Options

[brittney414211]

Ive been dating my boyfriend now for almost 9 months. But latley things have became boring from doing the same things all the time. just hanging out with each other everyday, and we're starting to argue alot and just have act like a old married couple. When were not fighting i honestly love him...alot...he is basically my bestfriend...But on the other hand there is another guy. Ive known him forever and ive always liked him...we've been seeing each other just around local places and i talk to him more than even on msn and we text back and forth...ive developed a crush outside of my relationship...im always thinkings about him it seems...and i know he likes me back...how do i deal with loving some one so much but wanting to be with someone else and thinking about them all the time! its bringing me down

[cassjamminx]

hmm it seems like you really need time to sort things out. just ask yourself who would you rather be with? if you get bored after 9months of the same person, then obviously he might not be the one. and if it's arguing that's bring you down, just talk it out with him before another fight comes up. but about the crush, you should mention that to your current boyfriend. and just really sort out your feelings.