what to do...what to do Options

[brittney414211]

Ive been dating my boyfriend now for almost 9 months. But latley things have became boring from doing the same things all the time. just hanging out with each other everyday, and we're starting to argue alot and just have act like a old married couple. When were not fighting i honestly love him...alot...he is basically my bestfriend...But on the other hand there is another guy. Ive known him forever and ive always liked him...we've been seeing each other just around local places and i talk to him more than even on msn and we text back and forth...ive developed a crush outside of my relationship...im always thinkings about him it seems...and i know he likes me back...how do i deal with loving some one so much but wanting to be with someone else and thinking about them all the time! its bringing me down

[*T0rmented_Soul*]

well one of the rules in a relationship is Commitment, it seems to me that you liking this other guy, is bringing up a wall between you and your boyfriend. and to Honestly say, it's not love if your not giving him your full potential. Your sharing the love for his sake because he's your boyfriend but then again sharing it to someone else you've had a crush on for a long time. but If you feel that this relationship is nothing but a downhill then you must do what you have to do. But then again, its not entirely his fault for the arguements, and the boringness between you guys, you've found passion for another and you lay your eyes away from your BF. soyou should think about it from here on.