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post Aug 6 2006, 11:49 PM
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ok..me and my best friend...used to always talk on the phone together and stuff..about school...boys....future..teachers..tv shows..ect...
now its summer..and were totally drifting apart..but she still calls me everyday..and its getting sorta really annoying now...i mean she'll call me..and this is sorta like our coversation:
her: hi
me: hi
her: wassup
me: nothing
her: uh huh
me: yeah
me: so wassup
her: nothing...just working on the site.
---pause--- for a few seconds
her: wassup
me: nothing...

then later i'll get off the phone making a lame excuse like...i gotta go eat..or something...
ok...this is the problem...how could i tell her to stop calling me everyday..and like call me once a week or something...or call me if something really important happens or something....im sick of making excuse to her...i mean...i guess this is happening because its the summer..and there is like no school to talk about or boys..or w/e....and also because she is really bored and we are really really drifting apart...I NEED UR HELP PPL...HOW COULD I TELL HER TO STOP CALLING ME SO OFTEN...OR LIKE CALL ME ONCE A WEEK OR WHEN SOMETHING REALLY IMPORTANT TO SAY..IM SICK OF MAKING LAME EXCUSES....i need ur help..reply back please...

sorry if u guys think i wrote too much..but i didnt think that as a lot...since i know other ppl write waay more then i do...
 
 
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post Aug 6 2006, 11:56 PM
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well that happend to me to but what i did i would stop answering the phone or like when they were talkin to me i would say im busy or i have to go some where so they kinda stopped calling me so much. just tell her that why does she call you if she is only like quiet the whole time.. lol sorry i really dont know what to tell ya.
 
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post Aug 7 2006, 11:38 PM
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QUOTE(iROCKYOURSOCKS @ Aug 7 2006, 12:56 AM) *
well that happend to me to but what i did i would stop answering the phone or like when they were talkin to me i would say im busy or i have to go some where so they kinda stopped calling me so much. just tell her that why does she call you if she is only like quiet the whole time.. lol sorry i really dont know what to tell ya.


i kinda agree you should stop answering the phone but don't completely ignore it just like answer it once a week and then she'll figure it out by herself (maybe). and if she ask you why you won't answer her call then just tell her straight forward or like make plans to spend time with her so then next time on the phone you guys can talk bout the time you spend time together. that's the best i can tell ya hope it helps happy.gif
 

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