Almost 2 months, & im still not over him... Options

[LiSFORLiNDA]

Okay wells heres my problem...

Its been almost 2 months or so since me & my ex broke up. He broke up with me because of him working & not having time for me & this & that. He texts me ALL the time & he calls me. When he broke up with me he said he likes me but doesnt think we could have a sucessful relationship w/ him & work. So he still likes me...^^ unless the whole work thing was an excuse [but i dont think so] Anyways im tired of this..its like he likes me but doesnt. Its so confusing so tonight im going to ask him if he's over me or w/e so i can move on. Because whats the point of me wasting my time liking him when he doesnt have any kind of feelings for me...right ? When we're on he phone its just liek before,we're both laughing & making fun of eachother. I just dont want that to change so i kinda dont wanna ask him if he's over me,but i NEED to know so i can move on instead of being stuck on him...ya know what i mean ? so should i or what..?

Please help

[cassjamminx]

hmm, well if he has time to text you all the time and call you to talk, doesn't that mean that he DOES have time for you? have you thought about that..? but i may be wrong, maybe you guys text/talk at night and stuff, but if not, can't those times when you guys talk be times when he can see you to spend time with you?

if it's true that he still likes you, and you still like him, and you really want to be with him, maybe you don't have to give up hope entirely and wait for him until the time is right.

but if you feel that you personally need to move on (hence why you're asking him tonight) then there's nothing wrong with that. there is no sense in waiting around for something that isn't for certain, so it's good that you're taking the initiative by asking him.



keep in mind that time heals everything, but i know that that is easier said than done.
hope that helps.