Um...., when is it selfish? Options

[*Uronacid*]

I'm having a bit of an issue myself... lately I have been not saying things out of fear of them possibly being selfish... like, alright if your consistantly getting nervous about something is it good to keep bringing it up and work on it together or try to ignore it so the your partner doesn't have to deal with your problems and issues? Like I love Holly, and is it truley the best for her if I talk about things that bother me all the time.... maybe sometimes ignorace is bliss... I know she's going to question this topic on the phone now... >.> I have been trying to act like nothing is wrong for the past week. It's working, but the truth is that I'm really stressed out... I haven't been eating much and I'm consistantly getting stomach aches... I'm trying to solve the issues on my own, and talk to my friends about them so she doesn't have too...

[*T0rmented_Soul*]

Firstly, I loved my girl alot, and sometimes I think she deserves better rather than dealing with the shit I have to deal with. She ask's me are you sure you ok? I'll be like yeah I'm fine don't worry about me. But that was all a Lie. I was packed with Family problems, Strssin out with people givin me problems, and at times I yell at her out of nowhere. when I don't mean it because my mind is clouded with so many thing's I tend to forget who I am at times. But she, she doesn't give up on me, she makes me remember that, she tells me she loves just to make me remember that, she tells me she'll always be there just to make me remember. and that I'm not alone and you have someone here who will stick with you all the way no matter how hard your life is going through right now. she gave me a new path to take and she supported me in all ways, and helped me solve my problems that I couldn't bear to hold in any longer. that's why I don't hold anything in, the longer it stays in the harder it will come out. and the outcome isn't beautiful.