is it considered lame, to break up by.. Options

[x_envythis]

to break up by text message? im the biggest wuss i know and i dont think i can stand doing it face to face or even by calling. but the text message wont be simple. ive drafted and re-drafted loads of what i was going to say. so do you guys think its okay to do it? thankss.

[Just2Fresh]

Dont do that. Your setting yourself up for disaster. Not only would you be breaking up with them over text which is lame but they could show the text to all their friends which is even worst because then you have to deal with everyone who has seen the text. Do it face to face if not over the phone.

[*T0rmented_Soul*]

Dont do that. Your setting yourself up for disaster. Not only would you be breaking up with them over text which is lame but they could show the text to all their friends which is even worst because then you have to deal with everyone who has seen the text. Do it face to face if not over the phone.

dayuum that's true though, If I were you and if the dude was going to show something like that to all his friends, save the embarassment. But I ain't here to rag on you. THough it may be a lame way to breakup, you gotta have at least some sense of pride. are you going to do that with every boyfriend you have? if so then you need to step up your game..if your scared of hurting him..theres always a reason for everything..If you wanna break up with the man but your scared to do it..your just going to stress your self over your own mistake. so instead of text messaging him..call him..or see him face to face..WORDS DON'T MEAN ANYTHING IF THERES NO ACTION INVOLVED..it'd be koo to remember that..just like them sill IM fights, you can say some mean shit to the person and cuss 'em out, but theres no action involved so it won't mean shit unless you do something right? lol nuff said you should get the picture by now