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I'm so nervous, about having sex for the first time.
SemiErotic
post Aug 5 2006, 10:08 PM
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Alright, I'm a virgin, and that might be changing very soon. I've heard a lot of really bad things from my girl friends, and they made me all nervous. I'm not expecting it to be wonderful, but I was hoping that someone could tell me something positive about their first time.
 
 
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post Aug 6 2006, 01:48 PM
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it sound to me that you don't know what to do or confused. maybe you are not ready yet. To some girls losing their virginity is a big step in life. It's a very magical moment and only happen once in life. You are doing it because he is someone special to you? In my opinon, I think you should wait until the right time and moment comes. be STRONG wink.gif
 
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post Aug 6 2006, 07:54 PM
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QUOTE(Spec_R @ Aug 6 2006, 11:48 AM) *
it sound to me that you don't know what to do or confused. maybe you are not ready yet. To some girls losing their virginity is a big step in life. It's a very magical moment and only happen once in life. You are doing it because he is someone special to you? In my opinon, I think you should wait until the right time and moment comes. be STRONG wink.gif


Took the words out of my mouth. If your not SURE you want to or your nervous then your not ready yet. When you get to the point where you and him are alone and it just gets to that point and your ok, not thinking about anything bad and everything feels right then thats when your ready. Make sure he wears a condom and make sure it doesnt break. Dont want no kids after the first time youve had sex yenno.
 

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SemiErotic   I'm so nervous   Aug 5 2006, 10:08 PM
salcha4u   Why don't you just....not do it   Aug 5 2006, 10:16 PM
nyctophiliac   QUOTE(salcha4u @ Aug 5 2006, 11:16 PM) Wh...   Aug 5 2006, 10:22 PM
christina lee   QUOTE(salcha4u @ Aug 5 2006, 8:16 PM) Why...   Sep 15 2006, 05:45 AM
xbabyboo   ^^same here. you don`t have to do what the cr...   Aug 5 2006, 10:27 PM
xcaitlinx   i'm not a virgin, and i understand how you...   Aug 5 2006, 10:29 PM
SemiErotic   I'm considering just not doing it at all, like...   Aug 5 2006, 10:34 PM
nyctophiliac   good for you only do it if you really love who yo...   Aug 5 2006, 10:52 PM
Angelina Taylor   Don't do it.. you're insecure. Do it with ...   Aug 5 2006, 10:54 PM
tainted_angel   ^ I'll have to agree. If you're unsure abo...   Aug 5 2006, 11:04 PM
SemiErotic   The thing is, I really do want to. I do trust him...   Aug 5 2006, 11:20 PM
Angelina Taylor   ^ You're not ready, trust me. If you were, you...   Aug 5 2006, 11:29 PM
iROCKYOURSOCKS   QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Aug 5 2006, 11:29...   Aug 6 2006, 07:48 PM
T0rmented_Soul   For a guy their first time may be great but then f...   Aug 5 2006, 11:44 PM
electric shock   There's always a first in everything. If you w...   Aug 5 2006, 11:44 PM
rorhinna   Don't do it! And if you're feeling pr...   Aug 6 2006, 12:47 AM
liquid.   I'll be the positive one! Positive side: ...   Aug 6 2006, 03:03 AM
Annie5332   My advice: If you're nervous, you're not r...   Aug 6 2006, 01:23 PM
Spec_R   it sound to me that you don't know what to do ...   Aug 6 2006, 01:48 PM
Just2Fresh   QUOTE(Spec_R @ Aug 6 2006, 11:48 AM) it s...   Aug 6 2006, 07:54 PM
Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg   if you aren't fully confident that this is wha...   Aug 6 2006, 07:37 PM
Doona   This is a subject I've heard alot about at my ...   Aug 6 2006, 07:50 PM
Smoogrish   If you have any doubts, don't do it. Simple as...   Aug 6 2006, 08:39 PM
Angelina Taylor   ^ Regarding that, you should know that sometimes, ...   Aug 6 2006, 11:22 PM
cassjamminx   ^ True (if it rips and what not) But if you'r...   Aug 6 2006, 11:33 PM
x___F0RG0TTEN   hmm to me, i think that if you're having these...   Aug 7 2006, 12:07 AM
icy_wonderland   I suppose sex isn't that great anyways. There ...   Aug 7 2006, 06:59 AM
cloudy sunshineee   You sound reeeaally nervous. If you're not rea...   Aug 7 2006, 11:14 PM
viola_winnie   if you're nervous,that means you arent ready f...   Aug 7 2006, 11:16 PM
Brittany Rachelle   I'm not sure what to tell you. If you want to,...   Aug 8 2006, 01:09 AM
just_rissa   I agree with all the people who are virgins.   Aug 8 2006, 01:51 AM
superdotimas25   hey man, i believe in abstinence and all that---- ...   Aug 8 2006, 02:15 AM
Stately Lover   "That might be changing very soon." It ...   Aug 8 2006, 01:22 PM
lanbexx   do it! its the most amazing experience ever an...   Aug 8 2006, 01:55 PM
rorhinna   QUOTE(lanbexx @ Aug 8 2006, 11:55 AM) do ...   Aug 8 2006, 05:08 PM
french_fries   Well..if you're having doubts, then I suggest ...   Aug 8 2006, 05:07 PM
lanbexx   yup thats what a girl would say. unless ur announ...   Aug 8 2006, 07:45 PM
blaqheartedstar   well ... gonna be 17 and i'm in the same boat ...   Aug 8 2006, 07:56 PM
lollypop036   well u dont really seem ready at all so id advise ...   Aug 10 2006, 07:49 PM
xoxo_koala_kisses_   If you're questioning it, then you are clearly...   Aug 10 2006, 08:34 PM
The E-Man   Well I agree with Melissa. You have to be mature a...   Aug 10 2006, 08:41 PM
lindurf   deleted   Aug 11 2006, 01:55 PM
xoxo_koala_kisses_   QUOTE(lindurf @ Aug 11 2006, 2:55 PM) you...   Aug 11 2006, 05:56 PM
lilseeky   agreed, dont do it if you feel wierd about it. bu...   Aug 11 2006, 02:33 PM
iRock cB   Positive? I was in love when I lost my virginity a...   Aug 11 2006, 06:51 PM
liquid.   http://www.freehomepages.com/liquidized/003.wma Do...   Aug 11 2006, 06:58 PM
iRock cB   ^ I can't. It's corrupted or something. I ...   Aug 11 2006, 07:03 PM
xxaznxgurlxx   Everyone has their first times, I had mine. From p...   Aug 11 2006, 08:08 PM
Angelina Taylor   QUOTE(xxaznxgurlxx @ Aug 11 2006, 9:08 PM...   Aug 12 2006, 08:27 AM
Yemmerz   If one more person says "do it", I'm...   Aug 12 2006, 04:04 AM
lyin_in_wait   well it was positive because i felt like it wasnt ...   Aug 12 2006, 11:48 AM
xnastyninjagrlx   Honestly, if you are even asking this question the...   Aug 14 2006, 02:44 PM
Uronacid   You wouldn't be nervous about it if you were r...   Aug 14 2006, 09:47 PM
satch   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Aug 14 2006, 7:47 PM) Yo...   Aug 14 2006, 09:56 PM
herebutnot   well, i lost my virginity about a year ago with a ...   Sep 8 2006, 04:01 PM
II_noFOREVER   there are questions you should ask yourself ... h...   Sep 12 2006, 01:58 PM
m_h   I'm sure your still very young and very confus...   Sep 12 2006, 07:01 PM
Venomous Lust   A word of adive you should never plan it out.If yo...   Sep 15 2006, 01:25 PM
Trinie   Actually, when it was first time, and that was 7 y...   Sep 18 2006, 07:38 AM
Hot Layouts   Yeah. LOL. QUOTEPOINTLESS POSTS To enhance the ...   Sep 18 2006, 08:04 AM
sillakilla220   just DO IT... yeah u WILL bleed a lil! its ok ...   Sep 18 2006, 11:34 AM


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