So there's this boy... Options

[breakingdawn]

That I hate.

I absolutely hate him in all entirety of the universe and beyond. And yes, I know that that doesn't make any sense. IT DOESN'T MATTER.

HOW DO I GET HIM TO LEAVE ME ALONE?!

Okay, let me fill you guys in with a bit of our history.

He was my first kiss. But it doesn't really count cos it was spin the bottle. So it wasn't like I had a choice. After that, we went out. But not really, because it was more of a talk-online-and-on-the-phone-only relationship. It didn't count. And I didn't even *like* him. It was just lust and since he was my first kiss and yachtayachtayachta. Okay, but apparantly he was in love with me. And he still is. And this was like, oh, two years ago? We broke up after a month because he was freaking me out. But I didn't hate him then. So we were good friends and stuff, but we had our ons and offs. Like, I would get really mad at him because I was with another boy and he would trip me and call me names because he was jealous and a little pussy of a guy. Just recently we started talking again, and all of a sudden he asks me out. Wtf? Where the hell did he get the idea that I wanted to go out with him? And now he wont stop calling me. And I'm afraid to answer the phone because I don't want to talk to him.

I don't even want to be his friend!

How do I get him to leave me alone... FOREVER!?

[*Uronacid*]

Alright, he may have just never got over you. It seems like he really wasn't in love with you at all. It seems like he just thought that he was in love with you. Many times peopel will confuse obbsession with love. Obbsession will lead you to become a jealous control freak. Also, if he was this obbsessed with you, he may not be able to get over you until you clearly tell him what you think of him. You need to tell him exactly how you feel. Alot of times people will tell me that they don't want to hurt the person that has a crush on them by telling them, but the truth is that, in the long run, you will be hurting them if you don't. He may not be able to get over you without you taking control of your relationship with him (when I use the word relationship. I am referring to a relationship between two people not a boy/girl relationship.)

Tell him that you have no intention in dating him ever again, and that you don't even want to be his friend if he will only be your friend with the hopes that he is going to go out with you someday. Also, take a break from communicating with him after you have said that.