This is my situation., help/adviced is appreciated. Options

[shigger_sweetie]

Here's my situation.
I really need some assurance or something.
Male or Female opinions it doesn't matter.
This is a tad long so please don't fret.

Ill start of by giving some detailed information.
>Im going to be a Junior this fall. Highschool.
<I'm a pretty tall lad. 6 footer.
>I have about 2 long term close/best friends.
Not to mention i do have alot of friends.
But those 2 are the ones i knew since kindergarten.

My two close friends are all going to be juniors like me, and we go to different schools. Not too long ago before we entered high school, we all have changed dramatically. My best friend "K" has changed alot. She has numerous of guys numbers and talks to many of them. She cares about how she looks and dresses twenty-four seven. Which I'm not knockin' because I do too. [Just not 24/7]. She has had boyfriends, interacted sexually with them. Right now at this moment she is single slash taken. Its confusing so Ill leave it at that. But she hasnt had actual sex yet. Which I hope she waits. She doesnt smoke or drink, which Im glad. She's goes to school, but doesnt really go up to her needs. She lets petty stuff distract her. Her grades could be better. But she's became a little too... FAST. I don't really like that term but I can't think of anything else.

My close friend "C" has changed alot too. She smokes [weed], but she said she stopped which I really don't think is true. She has had sex more then once. She has many of guys numbers too. And talks to them. She has a boyfriend, her 5th one. She has had sex with each of them. And haven't stayed in the relationship for no more then 2 or 3 months. Her guy choice really isn't all that great either. She's kind of off and on about school. To tell you the truth I don't know if she will go to school this fall. She in a tough situation herself. Which I understand. She's a foster child. But my motto is that's not an excuse for her behavior because she stays with her Aunt and Uncle and 2 cousins. She became.. well highly experienced now.

[size=3]What is this leading too you ask?

Im the complete opposite from them.
I'm at times ashame to admit it to people, but Im [well according to my two friends] the "goody goody" one in the group. I mean yeah I know you try things in your highschool years. But I think what there doing is a little too overboard. Like they do those things for the Pride of it. To be proud of what they got.
I have not had my first kiss yet Im 16.
I'm still a virgin and damn proud.
I have had one boyfriend but it really wasn't a relationship. More just good friends.
I never smoked anything. . .nor have I drinked.
I get above average grades..and plan on going to a university.
I play sports, something I love.
I have never been to an actual party like drinking dancing and all that.

Now don't get me wrong Im not the type of person that thinks its oh so horrible. Some of it is, but not all of it. Nor do I think that Im too good for that. It's just I choose not to do that stuff. Yeah Im still a cool 16 year old girl. And I'm tall, Im taller then majority of guys and my friends say this to me alot, "oh we can't find guys for you, your so gigantic". I mean I would really love to have a boyfriend[usually someone my height or taller], or my first kiss, not right now, but this junior year maybe.

There's just questions about all this I ask myself alot:
Am I behind or not up to speed since majority of teens have done the basic things I have not even done yet?
Is it normal?
Do highschool guys even like tall slim girls?
Should I feel like the "goody goody" one in my group because I havent done the things my close friends have done?


Help is really needed here. Guys and Gals with some pointers/advice/thoughts or whatever is encouraged right now.
-Zoey

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

sorry Delightfully Colored but you cannot control your friends behavior not everyone is going to be like you that you get taught well and actually take what you learned and apply it the real world because it does not work that way nobody thinks the same. i know that you care about your friends but they are not elementary skool kids they are teenagers who are growing into adulthood and you cant always be there to hold there hands. the most that you can do is talk to them and give them advice about the dangers of sex/oral sex, drugs and alcohol but you cant force them not to do something if they want to do it.

oh yea and its not fair for them etheir to treat you like some kind of diary that is ridiculous you are their friend and not somekind of living diary that they say all their sexual experiences to no matter how close friends you guys are.