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 Aug 3 2006, 04:58 PM
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 Pokeball, GO!  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,832 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,009  |
Ok guys. One of my best friends named Mondo doesn't like me anymore because I've gotten to know this kid named Aaron. I hate this. Just because I try to be friends with everyone, I lose one of my close friends. It's like that with adults too. They think because you're associated with one group that you're just as bad. It really is unfair and immature. Grr. That happened to me a while back. This has really been getting me down cause Aaron's cool but Mondo doesn't like him for some reason. I guess people aren't allowed to actually be nice to everyone anymore. And for the record, I hardly ever talk to Aaron but Mondo doesn't believe me. Any suggestions? Have you ever been in this situation? I'd love to hear some stories. I think I'm gonna call Mondo and talk to him more about it.
Oh, and this might belong in Relationships. I wasn't sure. Move it if you must.  I'd rather it be in here so I can get some help but it's cool.Edit// Geez, views but no replies? Come on, I need help! haha. I'm so confused. 
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Aug 3 2006, 05:23 PM
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 stephanie .. Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
maybe Mondo is jealous because he's secretly in love with you and he thinks that Aaron is your new lover. :x
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Aug 3 2006, 10:26 PM
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QUOTE(nyctophiliac @ Aug 3 2006, 5:23 PM)  maybe Mondo is jealous because he's secretly in love with you and he thinks that Aaron is your new lover. :x agreed. its not natural for a guy to feel so jealous over you having another friend .....could he possibly be hiding some kind love passion for you? |
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Aug 4 2006, 12:25 AM
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Pokeball, GO! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,832 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,009 |
QUOTE(iROCKYOURSOCKS @ Aug 3 2006, 11:26 PM) agreed. its not natural for a guy to feel so jealous over you having another friend .....could he possibly be hiding some kind love passion for you? Haha I doubt it. No, he said him and Aaron have a "bad history" and it wasn't so much he was jealous, he just didn't want me to start turning on him after I hung out with Aaron . |
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Aug 4 2006, 07:14 PM
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<(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
QUOTE(iRock cB @ Aug 4 2006, 12:25 AM) Haha I doubt it. No, he said him and Aaron have a "bad history" and it wasn't so much he was jealous, he just didn't want me to start turning on him after I hung out with Aaron . lol well now that its cleared up i agree with --x who0ps he might feel like you are replacing him with aaron and what a worse way then being friends with his worst enemy just tell him that you wouldnt do anything to betray his friendship and he cant control who you want to be friends with and thats something he has to deal with. |
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Aug 4 2006, 07:40 PM
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Pokeball, GO! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,832 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,009 |
QUOTE(iROCKYOURSOCKS @ Aug 4 2006, 8:14 PM) lol well now that its cleared up i agree with --x who0ps he might feel like you are replacing him with aaron and what a worse way then being friends with his worst enemy just tell him that you wouldnt do anything to betray his friendship and he cant control who you want to be friends with and thats something he has to deal with. Yeah and I wish he'd realize that I would never betray him. Never. Even if Aaron tried to tell me I shouldn't be friends with him, I still would. See Aaron tried to snoop around where he shouldn't. He tried to mess around with Mondo's girlfriend. |
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Aug 4 2006, 07:58 PM
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<(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
QUOTE(iRock cB @ Aug 4 2006, 7:40 PM) Yeah and I wish he'd realize that I would never betray him. Never. Even if Aaron tried to tell me I shouldn't be friends with him, I still would. See Aaron tried to snoop around where he shouldn't. He tried to mess around with Mondo's girlfriend.  OUCH that aaron guy is really not playing i mean thats really low to go and mess with this other dudes girlfriend just to get back at him. you really need to talk to both of them and tell them to knock it off because they seriously sound like a bad chick drama and at any time they will have a little slap fight over who gets to be best friends with you ..and tell mondo that you will always be his really cool friend and that hopefully he and aaron can settle there diffrences but i doubt it because aaron is just playing dirty lol..have you known mondo for a long time? if so then i really think you should back up your buddy and dont let aaron mess up your buds realtionship if you just met aaron it wouldnt be fair to mondo that you keep taking his side. sorry but your just stuck in the middle of a bad fight. 
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Posts in this topic
iRock cB Associated Aug 3 2006, 04:58 PM
yrrnotelekktric i hate situations like these. i would just confro... Aug 3 2006, 05:25 PM SOOPER jue. I had that problem like while back. Well not exact... Aug 3 2006, 05:27 PM
sakaitone QUOTE(SOOPER jue. @ Aug 3 2006, 6:27 PM) ... Aug 3 2006, 05:54 PM msladyliberty I say: Leave the one who makes you choose!
... Aug 3 2006, 05:57 PM iRock cB Thanks for the advice. I really, really appriciate... Aug 3 2006, 06:42 PM tooeffingcrazy Sounds to me like a bad gay drama.
Some people j... Aug 4 2006, 12:10 AM --x who0ps I've been in this situation before.
He's d... Aug 4 2006, 11:02 AM helllla jankyyyy I'm the Aaron in your situation.
Boooo.
Exce... Aug 4 2006, 08:43 PM Your pain is not love Have a good long talk with Mondo - convince him/ma... Aug 6 2006, 09:33 PM candy_coated_kisses Oh God...so much I could say... but I won't.
... Aug 6 2006, 10:38 PM xbabyboo Uhh talk to Mondo,explain to him your situation an... Aug 7 2006, 12:46 AM Uronacid If it's jealousy.... he needs to get over it..... Aug 7 2006, 10:00 AM n00b this ALWAYS happens to me.
it's so immature.
j... Aug 9 2006, 01:54 AM |
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