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MY BFS MOM HATES ME!!!, things are getting worse
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post Aug 3 2006, 09:42 PM
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hmm ok well first i met this guy Elmer.. a lllooooong time ago! about a few years ago. i had a crush on him and he had a crush on me... but we never saw each other after that.. THEN i met him again in sept.2005` at a YFC Camp. we remembered each other but didnt really talk. he gave me his number and since the last day of camp.. weve been talking EVERY SINGLE DAY even up til` around 4am. wed both get in trouble alot too. finally on Jan. 06, 2006 at 1:43am HE ASKED ME OUT <333 3 days before my birthday ! but ever since he and i talk on the phone.. his mom n dad never liked me. my mom&dad never knew either. >.< a few weeks after we were going out i had a bad feeling about that day.. & i was right. His mom told my aunt about me & him and she told my mom!!!! my mom talked to me.. & she thinks hes my first BF but he isnt.. =] IM HIS first GF cuz hes always been lookin` for the right girl that he wanted to be with. weeeellllll.. amazingly my mom WANTED me to tell her and she thought it was cute. she kept asking why i chose him.. but yeah. THEN.. things get worse.. his dads always yelling at him. and his parents are such SDHFDGGH yeah ! _dry.gif grr.. his dad doesnt really care && my parents talked to him. MY DAD DOESNT KNOW ABOUT ME & HIM. but my mom knows. one day a few months ago elmer told me he wouldnt hug me until i talked to his mom. so i gathered all my courage and walked up to her with a friend of mine. his mom IGNORED ME THE HOLE TIME!! i was so upset. she acts like a teenager. she told him she AUTOMATICALLY knew who i was & what kinda girl i was with just one look at me. WTF IS THAT ?! then she talks SOOO much mess about me.. shes like a damn` kid or something. ugh. i try to be nice.. i respect her & all that but shes so MEAN. she cant hold onto him forever. sdghogfiogh AGH ! & she MAD ALSO cuz i invite him to the movies and parties.. WTF ? THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH DOING THAT!!!!! his mom is so closeminded too!! jeez` Elmers always defending me and his mom gets mad when he does that. we dont see each other alot.. just.. a few times a month.. the longest ive gone without seeing him is about 2 months ? hmm && right now.. last time i saw him was 2 weeks ago. jeez` idk what his moms problem is. i dont understand her and she doesnt even wanna get to know me or anything ! my aunt is trying to set up a gathering thing for my parents & his & my aunt & whatever.. but his moms being a bitch` & doesnt wanna. my parents dont like his mom so whatever. idk..

HELP ME ! how am i supposed to deal with this !? i love him so much..
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but things are just getting worse & i dont really know how to explain the rest of it..
 
 
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post Aug 4 2006, 01:06 PM
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^ haha yeah...but that stuffs all the past on clinging on to the past will make it so you can live in the future..well sometimes a little prooving them wrong is all you can do...be acknowledged by them..show them what a different person you are than what they see intheir eyes..prove them wrong. you can do it =]
 

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msz`cookie   MY BFS MOM HATES ME!!!   Aug 3 2006, 09:42 PM
Youraisemeup   I dont have lovelife experience but i seriosly thi...   Aug 3 2006, 10:01 PM
msz`cookie   QUOTE(Youraisemeup @ Aug 3 2006, 10:01 PM...   Aug 3 2006, 10:15 PM
This Confession   Yea I can see what you mean, his mom makes me thin...   Aug 3 2006, 10:06 PM
Cake.   i think you should respect how other people's ...   Aug 3 2006, 10:07 PM
This Confession   Cake - No offense at all, but being a fake person ...   Aug 3 2006, 10:09 PM
msz`cookie   haha thanks ^_^ yeah i dont understand her.. shes ...   Aug 3 2006, 10:10 PM
iROCKYOURSOCKS   well i would suggest you have a long talk with you...   Aug 3 2006, 10:12 PM
iROCKYOURSOCKS   talk to her in person with your boyfriend and seri...   Aug 3 2006, 10:22 PM
msz`cookie   QUOTE(iROCKYOURSOCKS @ Aug 3 2006, 10:22 ...   Aug 3 2006, 10:29 PM
jsmooth4ever   I once had this problem not because I feared anyon...   Aug 3 2006, 10:41 PM
msz`cookie   QUOTE(jsmooth4ever @ Aug 3 2006, 10:41 PM...   Aug 3 2006, 10:49 PM
jsmooth4ever   QUOTE(msz`cookie @ Aug 3 2006, 10:49 ...   Aug 3 2006, 10:57 PM
msz`cookie   QUOTE(jsmooth4ever @ Aug 3 2006, 10:57 PM...   Aug 3 2006, 11:21 PM
msladyliberty   I'd KISS ASS. here's how I delt with a...   Aug 3 2006, 11:12 PM
x___F0RG0TTEN   ahh omg. hope this doesn't turn out like the m...   Aug 3 2006, 11:31 PM
msz`cookie   QUOTE(x___F0RG0TTEN @ Aug 3 2006, 11:31 P...   Aug 4 2006, 12:19 AM
liquidize   Damn just follow myu lead and just be like " ...   Aug 4 2006, 12:22 AM
msz`cookie   QUOTE(liquidize @ Aug 4 2006, 12:22 AM) D...   Aug 4 2006, 01:10 AM
Youraisemeup   I thought of a different way to handle it too...   Aug 4 2006, 02:30 AM
msz`cookie   QUOTE(Youraisemeup @ Aug 4 2006, 2:30 AM)...   Aug 4 2006, 12:23 PM
T0rmented_Soul   wow dude is gonna have a birthday..and you can...   Aug 4 2006, 02:46 AM
liquidize   I meant break up with him and tell his mom to shoo...   Aug 4 2006, 04:26 AM
lyin_in_wait   bringing a friend up w/ you to talk to her wasnt t...   Aug 4 2006, 09:41 AM
BeautifullyxBr0ken   Sometimes you can't help how parents signficic...   Aug 4 2006, 10:04 AM
sarahc143   Tell your mom and if she under stands and is consi...   Aug 4 2006, 11:04 AM
msz`cookie   QUOTE(sarahc143 @ Aug 4 2006, 11:04 AM) T...   Nov 29 2006, 08:25 PM
T0rmented_Soul   ^ Glad to be of help =] I just know how you feel....   Aug 4 2006, 12:41 PM
msz`cookie   QUOTE(T0rmented_Soul @ Aug 4 2006, 12:41 ...   Aug 4 2006, 12:47 PM
T0rmented_Soul   I didn't meet up to the moms standards. she di...   Aug 4 2006, 12:55 PM
msz`cookie   QUOTE(T0rmented_Soul @ Aug 4 2006, 12:55 ...   Aug 4 2006, 01:02 PM
T0rmented_Soul   ^ haha yeah...but that stuffs all the past on clin...   Aug 4 2006, 01:06 PM
msz`cookie   QUOTE(T0rmented_Soul @ Aug 4 2006, 1:06 P...   Aug 4 2006, 02:34 PM
STFULiNDA   Dont worry about it, your dating him not his mom.   Aug 4 2006, 02:29 PM
xbabyboo   Well it ain`t like you the one who is acting l...   Aug 4 2006, 05:19 PM
msz`cookie   QUOTE(xbabyboo @ Aug 4 2006, 5:19 PM) Wel...   Aug 4 2006, 05:38 PM
msz`cookie   QUOTE(xbabyboo @ Aug 4 2006, 5:19 PM) Wel...   Dec 4 2006, 09:10 AM
Angelina Taylor   Unless you're marrying him, I wouldn't wor...   Aug 4 2006, 09:05 PM
msz`cookie   QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Aug 4 2006, 9:05 ...   Aug 4 2006, 11:13 PM
a painefull euphoria   this dosnt really look like its going to work out....   Nov 29 2006, 08:57 PM
Trinie   actually from my experience, my parents hated the ...   Dec 4 2006, 12:38 PM
msz`cookie   QUOTE(Trinie @ Dec 4 2006, 12:38 PM) actu...   Dec 4 2006, 10:02 PM


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